MatureDating Reviews 183

The majority of women on this site don't appear to make an effort to follow through with a reply message when contacted even after I've contacted them with a decent genuine message and introduction.The message I get is "you been liked"and that's as far as it goes!My other bone of contention is that so many women are too far away(not in Norfolk)and it's too expensive to drive long distance with the current cost of petrol for a blind date.So these sites need to get their act together.

Pure bs it takes a bit BUT BEWARE ITS ALL AI bs and steals your monies

Absolute disgrace, riddled with scammers,false profiles and even online prostitution

Signed up for a 3 day trial and then cancelled the same day. However the fine print states that you must cancel with 3 days (72 hours) notice or they will automatically deduct your fee for membership. Since its mathematically impossible to cancel within 72 hours before your free trial ends this clause is unlawful.

Additionally when talking to 'women' on the site I noticed they all used uncanny-valley writing which I recognised very quickly as I work extensively with AI. When investigating further I found a clause in the contract which gives the site the right to create and use fake profiles, ostensibly for testing / research, however I find this difficult to believe that's all they use them for given the likely AI women I was speaking with.

Further despite paying for their 'trial' that is not a trial, when I cancelled they immediately removed my ability to chat despite my paying for a 3 day trial. This is unlawful.

I would therefore have nothing to do with this site or any company that is linked to it. They are seemingly working within a model of 'business' that utilises deception, illegality and likely consumer fraud.

Edit:
So Trustpilot is threatening to delete this review unless I provide this scam company above my name, email, phone number. Maybe we should a review of 'Trust'pilot.

Complete scam. Poor quality website. Signed up to the 3 day trial. Didn't like it. To cancel you have to speak to someone on the phone and they then argue with you in a really strong foreign accent, try to get you to take free stuff. Refuse to sort it out. Then when you do get an email to confirm cancellation, they still take 1 month fees and you need to contact your banks fraud department and have a new bank card sent out

TOTAL SCAM. Very authentic looking local profiles but I reckon they're either chatbots or people being paid to keep you paying to exchange messages. DON@T BE TEMPTED, I just wasted a few hours and £50!!!!!!!

Don't waste your money, so many fake profiles, I live in the south of England, someone from Glasgow would message and say, your local to me let's meet up!, people in there 50s claiming to be in there early 30s, waste of time.

I joined MatureDates.com because I was hoping to meet older women for something casual. After using it for a while, here’s what I think:

Pros:

- Easy signup and straightforward design.
- Plenty of women to chat with, and the conversations can be fun.
- Good for passing time if you just want a bit of flirting.

Cons:

- For me, it feels more like a chat site than an actual hookup platform.
- So far, I haven’t been able to turn the chats into real-life meetups.

Overall:

If you’re just after fun chats with mature women, MatureDates.com can do the job. But if you’re serious about actually meeting up, I’ve had the best results on Cougars69. Hands down!!! CougarLife is also an alternative sometimes.

Within seconds of registering, I had five “interests” from women. My first thought was, how on earth could they know anything about me and already be interested? My profile was only 40% complete. To make it worse, each message had a countdown timer, threatening to vanish within an hour unless I opened it, and, of course, the only way to do that was by buying a subscription.

Classic money-grab. The whole setup reeked of a scam. Hard to believe, but it seems almost every dating site is running the same racket.

One more thing I noticed, and this will be very IMPORTANT for anyone considering subscription: the subscription 'CANCELLATION' or 'cancellation of renewal of subscription' is NOT easy to see. The website seems to have made it really difficult to cancel subscription by making it relatively INVISIBLE. I searched and searched but couldn't find any sign of cancelling your subscription.

Once you subscribe, I guess you're going to lose a heck of a lot of money.

BEWARE!

@Mature Dating (29 September 2025)

Thank you for your response. I still cannot find the cancellation information. Why is it so difficult to locate? Why can’t it be made simple and straightforward?

Here’s what I need: show me, step by step, how to cancel. If you fail to do that, your credibility is still at stake.

And now onto the Flirt-Casts!
The flirt-casts and auto replies come across as evasive. They are misleading. From what you've said, they look auto-generated from other profiles, creating the false impression that real users made a conscious choice to reach out. Doesn't that seem fraudulent? Wow!

Only picked 1 because 0 wasn't an option. Bunch of scammers, sadly yet another site looking to exploit people. They say they're from your city, but don't know ANYTHING about the city. Nothing but lies

tried too delete my account,, followed all instructions and my acc is still active,, ffs,,

How come all your reviews are 1 star? And why do reply to everyone as if your site is good and it's thier fault?. Show me 1 ,5 star review?
You obviously have to rethink the way you do business. Don't be arrogant enough to think someone won't report you to trading standards.

Scammers. 99% of profiles are fake, they also operate under many different names. owners should be shut down and prosecuted

Your response is totally meaningless, you DO NOT monitor anyone who joins and this it totally transparent. Just look at their profiles, a blind man can see its a fake. I got sick of doing your job for you and reporting profiles. Sure some will slip through the net but clearly your net has a gaping hole in it

This is nothing but a scam. Profiles are not real people. Bots and AI. They use stolen info to rope you in. Real womens names and phone numbers are used. Texts go through but actual calls are blocked. FAKE!!!!!!!!!!!!

Absolutely shocking service. Take money without your acknowledgement, because apparently you sign up to different sites. Just don’t bother at all

This site is so fake. I write how fake it was in my profile on the site and they removed it. Also every woman is there only to keep you spending money to chat. They refuse to even entertain talking anywhere else. When you say I wont be responding here again etc they ignore it and keep messaging etc. Avoid!

Give it a try and pay 40$ to be surprised that there is no one single right real profile. Non zero, shame on you shame on you layers scammers. please check what Google tell you about this site. Zero credibility and no real profile even the text to use your credit and buy more. You will reach nothing cheating with those scammy profile. Be
aware.
The problem is not the members are scammers,it is that all your members are a fake personality that doesn't exist. It's an A.I.answers programed to just drag real members to answer stupid questions so that to use your allowed messages and be obliged to buy more and more till you discover that there are no real women in the site but all of them are weird and wether they work for site or AI fake programs not women..
Shame on you again and again.you are destroying the dating business and implementing doubt and fear to go into any of them..

RED FLAG
it's an absolute scam. The company uses chatbots throughout. The conversation is not sequential or natural. If a question is asked in the chat room by the chatbot and you pause, the chatbot still responds based on an answer you haven't given. Hilarious. Another instance I answered a question blah blah tennis blip blip and the chatbot focused on the tennis word and still engaged further.
It's all pre-determined nonsense. I've raised it with the authorities

Total fraud . I took three day trial for £3.87 they charged me 3.87 then £22.96 then three times 7 total of almost £48 without authorisation . I was lucky my credit card raised fraud alert and I was able to reverse
DONT EVEN TOUCH PAY BUTTON THEY ARE TOTAL FRAUD THERE IS MO DATING ONLY DECEPTION BY PAID WOMEN

Terrible! The reoccurring payment method is shocking! I cancelled by telephone yesterday.
Only to be hit with another payment to a partner company Onadate today.
I never agreed to join another. So I called the billing company only to be told that as I joined mature dating they offer partner websites offering 3 day trials and unless you uncheck the box they automated add you to a months subscription
Please stay awsy from this site.