AdultFriendFinder Reviews 49

There is no way to meet an actual person there. You can meet plenty of real women on J4Kiss.com
if you play your cards right and know what you're looking for (and it's much cheaper!) AdultFinder is full of their In-House profiles that are used to keep you interested. No matter what it never comes to a real date. They promise you the world but they never keep their promises. Also you can easily get overcharged on AdultFinder: they apply all kinds of tricky schemes and techniques to get your money, including multiple bogus charges.

This is the most fraudulent website I have ever encountered. All profiles are fake. I repeat, ALL PROFILES ARE FAKE! Don't waste your money. The only people active on this site are scammers and bots. I repeat, ALL PROFILES ARE FAKE!

Adultfriendfinder.com is mainly American contacts. It’s absolutely useless for UK . Plus my experience when I found this out was when I’d already signed up for a year- but then I was convinced to reduced that to 1 month after trying to get a full refund and cancel.
Now is where the problem starts and I’m still trying to get the partial refund (1year subs. minus 1 months subs) and this month is nearly up in a few days but I still haven’t received the refund. In my email from them- they keep saying it’s been processed their end - but is still not in my account - even after supplying proof from my bank statements they still maintain the same line regardless. I’m still waiting after all the waiting times have been well exceeded ie. 5-7 business days for clearance of funds. Still not there and they (AFF) still spout the same line ‘it been processed our end’.
My bank is looking at them for fraud now as I’ve taken it a step further.
So this is my resulting review. No help. Just stubborn and standing behind an empty statement because -I’m still waiting.
AFF absolute trash. DO NOT USE THIS SITE.

I signed up for the $25 gold membership today. They added $19.95 to the total, which I fought. I logged in once after I changed my password, but couldn't log in again. I called support and talked with a clueless person. The background noise was very loud. Anyway, no luck. I then said I wanted a refund. Instead she offered me an extra month. I had to reminder that I didn't have access! Finally she agreed to a refund. I'll watch it closely. Very time-consuming and frustrating experience. Avoid them.

Hi look like internet is full of scamming sites for dates, so guys recomend wich one sites are real according to yours experience. I see here alot of burned guys by scammers, Is any real site where you can meet real people?????

Nothing but a site for prostitutes to solicit innocent guys who think they are actually getting hooked up with someone genuine, and scammers who run dozens of different schemes to get guys to "invest" in cryptocurrency and other bogus schemes.

I've been on and off this site five times. It seems to be about tricking people into joining then not refunding their money once they realize they had made a mistake. I think what had made me try it again this time, was trying to reconnect with people whose company I had enjoyed from years ago who had shown interest in meeting me. But, most of them were crazy, then. Your biggest problem is the massive imbalance in gender among its honest users. At least the site, is relatively harmless fun, to some people. There's not really anything wrong with single, lonely people talking dirty to other single, lonely people. People who are in bad relationships going online making themselves into (poorly paid) porn stars without their partner's knowledge, is nothing new. Most of the people on cam are in Columbia pretending to be in the US, to get people to notice them, so they can get tips. The same people have been camming for ten years or more with many different aliases and locations within the US. I suppose in some poorer parts of the world it's hard to find a job and so women have to resort to doing those things. As for the non cammers, I would never receive any responses from normal people who are listed as living near me, but had lots of people who lived across the country or overseas clicking on me, and either not sending any messages or sending me weird stuff that I had ignored. For the first 24 hours, there were constant messages from fake people with close to identical profiles (more than half of them were listed as transgender, also men who claim to be women). Even after that had passed, I had reported and got deleted about twenty profiles a day. I would get men liking my profile photos or hitting on me when it was clear from my profile that I was straight. About the only positive to me with AFF is the extortionists who tried to blackmail people years ago, after having tricked unsuspecting users, into sending sensitive photos, and then sending their social media IDs, are all gone.

Success! Only with gold! I've been a member since 2003. I have been on both sides Free and Gold. Standard profile gets you NOTHING more than teasing! I live in Germany, profile location is Mainz. I have manipulated my search criteria many times over. ALL of my search results come back modified and the suggestions are ALL are from countries outside of Europe. Mostly African countries. Cameroon seems to be the most popular suggestion. Gold was a little more interesting and I did have some success. My last Gold membership (2024) was a waste of time and money. DOUBLE CHECK BOXES WITH A CHECKMARK ALREADY CHECKED. I OVERLOOKED THAT AND CAUGHT IT TOO LATE.

It's fake, be better off investing in a blow up doll. You get more pleasure out of it.

It is a scam. Simply. Since the beginning. Using it for a short time, all the profiles are fake or bots. You can do nothing without a subscription. And they trick you with the subscription, without you noticing, they cjarge you additional 11 dolars.

I would rather give a zero rating, was hard to give one star.
Read the reviews, this site is a TOTAL SCAM. Cost me $40 bucks to figure out. Bank has stopped paying and refunding my money,
I did call customer service to report that after I paid for the gold membership and it still charged me for a standard membership on top of this.
That’s not why I called customer service.
After paying my membership and activation of my email I noticed that when I went to login the site kicked me out immediately.
I tried this about 5x’s still kicking me out.
So when customer service answered my call I explained my issue and then I brought up the charges for standard along with the gold membership I chose.
The customer service rep told me that I WAS NOT getting a refund.
This is why I called my bank and explained that this company is fraudulent service.
Even though the bank was not supposed to tell me this, but once I gave them the name on the payment from my account the banker told me that this company has a bad history of theft and fraud charges.
So when I say read the reviews ( I should have done first ) STAY AWAY FROM THIS SITE ADULTFRIENDFINDERS IS A TOTAL SCAM RIP OFF .

SCAMMERS SCAMMERS SCAMMERS AVOID 100%

Adult Friend Finder is the master (parent) site of Internet "sex" sites such as:

Alt.com
BDSM Date.Com
Meet BDSM.com

.. and countless others. You might wonder why they have so many sites. They want you to think that you need to belong to more than one site to get the best results. Then you notice that your mail on Alt.com is always the same as the mail on Meet BDSM.com. The sites are linked.

These sites specialize at milking you for your cash in return for pure illusion and zero outcome.

In my 6 months on sites like these, I have been contacted by hundreds of hyper-hot females. Virtually none of them were "verified", a quick-and-easy process to confirm that they are not fakes. If you ask, they will agree to verify. But they never follow through.

We are suckers who want better sex than you we can get just randomly meeting strangers. This includes "naughty" sex such as domination, etc. The sort of stuff that won't even come u on "straight" dating sites because it is considered too direct.

These sites actively encourage attractive females to contact you. There is always cash changing hands in the form of gifts, points to receive messages, points to send messages, etc. And the membership cost, of course. The sites benefit by having scammers there; without them, the site would be full of boring, ugly females you wouldn't touch with three paper bags.

The goal of the fakers is either to innocently ask you to send them money so they can travel to see you. Or they y might just be trying to feel approved of by faking their identities. The male homosexuals are obviously titillated by having you fawn over them, even though they are not females.

The sites all have a "report" or "block" feature, but this makes you their policeman. Besides, why should they get rid of a scammer who makes them money indirectly?

All of the photos are stolen from the internet. The profiles are chock-full of AI-robotic nonsense. The come-ons are obvious hustles. They promise to do anything for you. Do you really imagine that you are so attractive as to bring about any response from a playboy model? They call us "marks" for a reason -- we're fools with money and no common sense.

How bad is it? This is what I now know that you cannot possibly expect when you arrive through the sexy click-bait ads online:

A large portion of the beautiful "girls" are male homosexuals, some of them writing from prison cells. Don't ask me how.

Most others are from foreign countries, posing as US citizens. They have even discovered a way to buy or lease US phone numbers. So if you ask for them to get into an external call, they will provide you what appears to be absolute proof that they are American females. But they will never actually talk on the phone. Their texts will only be occasional. They will also never attend a video call, even secure one Google Meet.etc.)

These sites could aliminate 95% of the fakes in one day using their own protective 'bots. Instead, I am now convinced that the sites are generating many of the fake profiles, or coaching hustlers on how to make a living by lying to the innocent public.

I hope my experience can help arm you against the "sex' site hustle online. Cancel your memberships to all of these sites. Complain to congress. Participate in class-action lawsuits to shut these criminals down. Don't let them treat you like a dummy.

This is an adult website for a certainty. Now here's the plus side; they charge a flat rate of close to $40 a month which gives you pretty much everything you need to get going. This totally beats out the credit/coin systems other websites use which can bleed you dry and force you to pay more in literally minutes.

The downside is that when offering to pay you need to pay very close attention as they have a box ticked for an additional $20 that enables you to contact non-paying members who are browsing the site. This is a totally useless $20 badly spent.

Also, if you live in a small city like me, you're not going to see a whole lot of choices as far as women are concerned, and most of them were from open relationships where they are swingers with their husbands.

Also, getting a woman to reply to you is a difficult thing to do on that website. I was told by a woman from there that the reason for that is that the women are so inundated with messages from guys that my message would simply get lost so far down the list that the woman just runs out of time responding to them all before she could get to mine.

But the website has a fix for that, they say. Just pay them MORE money and your message will be highlighted near the top of the woman's list.

I give this dating site 2 stars, which is better than my previous reviews of these dating sites, but still not great. It can get way too pricey way too fast and show damn few positive results.

Site is nothing but a money grab, you have to be a gold member to do anything, but being a gold member is not enough you also have to spend another 30 month to be able to chat with those that are not gold members. Not very many people in my area to be worth it, but even if there was it still wouldn't be worth 60 a month. I have hooked up with members in the past like 5 years ago but site has changed alot since then.

I was a member for 3 months. What a waste of time and money. Not a single meeting but literally 100s of fake profiles and scammers trying to get my personal details. Beware guys the site is knowingly providing a platform for cybercrime and masquerading as a sex dating site.

only one sexual encounter happened on this i mean i cant say it doesn’t work but i feel like it could be faster u know.

Pure scam.

100s of views, hotlists, flirts from hot woman miles away. Why would they hit list me?

Scam scam scam.

Paid for monthly access. Waste.

It’s shocking, I’ve spoken to at least one bot.
No one actually near you that’s a real person.
Total waste of money.
If you’re thinking of joining just burn the money.
Better off spending the money on better dating app