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Total scam website my older mother in law 65+ used this site for a few weeks and spent over $300 us dollars just for a few weeks of chatting to some guy in China we don't even know if he's real could... See more
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It's simply a SCAM ONLINE DATING SITE where matches pose as aggressively pursuing you but in actuality they're all impostors or paid actors/staff! They are the worst & aggressive with hidden fees/char... See more
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- datemyage.com
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Very expensive app I was chatting with…
Very expensive app I was chatting with someone who I really liked and couldn't chat with him anymore because they expect you to pay £29 a month not fair I finley found someone and I can't afford to pay £29
September 15, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear Shelley,
We’re sorry to hear that you feel the pricing isn’t meeting your expectations. Our subscription plans are designed to offer a variety of features that help create meaningful connections. If you’d like more details or need help with options that fit your needs, feel free to reach out at support@datemyage.com. We’re here to assist!
It's ironic that they call it "date my…
It's ironic that they call it "date my age", because once you sign up you are flooded with fake responses from people of every conceivable age!
September 1, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear Doorothy,
We hear your concern about receiving messages from members outside your preferred age range. On DateMyAge.com, you can refine your filters to limit contact to the age groups you’re most interested in, and our moderation team continuously reviews accounts to prevent misuse. Please adjust your search and messaging settings, and if you encounter any suspicious activity, report it so we can act promptly.
I should have read the reviews here…
I should have read the reviews here first. I signed up two days ago waiting to dispute my credit card. What an awful awful app. Every single match sounded like phony responses and are all geographically undesirable from South America, Europe and thousands of miles away in the US. Not one near me at all. I only went on one other dating app, Ourtime, and that was a long time ago. Going to go back on that one it was more honest than this piece of garbage.
September 12, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear Donna,
We’re sorry your first experience felt discouraging. Matches are shown based on both your profile preferences and the activity of members worldwide, which sometimes includes distant locations if nearby profiles are limited. You can narrow your search by adjusting the distance and region filters so that only members closer to you appear. If you believe your billing was processed incorrectly, our support team is ready to review your account and assist with your dispute, please contact us directly through the Help Center for a faster resolution.
Scam from members to the customer care
3years on datemyage and the worst mistake of my life. Members aren't verified, 99% of them are scammers, you will never meet them. I was scammed after I did my own investigation. The site will not refund you. They will only remove the scammer and give you credits so that you can stay and get scammed again. They only after your money. You WILL be emotionally financially mentally ruined. After 3years I should know. The worst for me was the customer care
September 9, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear Marietjie.
We are truly sorry to hear how strongly you feel after your time with us. Every profile on DateMyAge.com goes through both automated and manual screening, but unfortunately, no system can completely prevent individuals with dishonest intentions from attempting to use the platform. That is why we provide tools for reporting and immediately remove any accounts found to be fraudulent.
Refunds are not part of our policy once credits are used, but in cases where a violation is confirmed, we issue replacement credits as a way to ensure members are not left without the services they paid for. This is outlined in our Terms of Use.
We understand how disappointing it must feel after investing years, and your feedback about customer support is important to us. We’ll be using it to improve the clarity of communication and the way we handle concerns like yours.
There are a hell of a lot of…
There are a hell of a lot of professionally photographed, European doctors on this site and it keeps glitching. I cant actually see any replies to the emails that I'VE SENT...
September 8, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear Sally,
Thanks for sharing your experience. We understand how seeing many polished profiles can feel overwhelming, and glitches make it worse. Our system sometimes filters messages to protect privacy and reduce spam, which might delay or hide replies to emails you send.
If you’re not seeing responses, try checking your spam/junk folders or using the “HelpCenter” on the site directly. For ongoing technical issues, please reach out to our support team at support@datemyage.com with details so we can troubleshoot the glitches for you.
We want your experience to be smooth and genuine.
—DateMyAge
Money for nothing
Seems that big part of females are trying to motivate you spend coins as soon as possible , almost all profiles has professional made photos and videos
September 5, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear Moshe,
We appreciate your candid feedback. Many members do invest in professional photos and videos to present their best selves, which can sometimes feel like pressure to spend quickly. However, DateMyAge encourages authentic connections, not just transactions.
If you notice profiles urging credits purchases aggressively or behaving suspiciously, please use the “Report” feature so our team can review them promptly. Your safety and satisfaction are priorities for us.
Thanks for helping us keep the community genuine.
—DateMyAge
Misleading and baiting
I think the person I was communicating with was baiting me so I would continue to add money to my account. When I got suspicious about this he asked me if I liked his questions. And I think it’s cruel.
September 2, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear Kelly,
We’re truly sorry you felt that way. Conversations should feel natural, never forced. While members pay credits to connect, no one should pressure you. Please report this profile through the “Report” option so our team can review it immediately and take action if needed.
Do not create a profile because you…
Do not create a profile because you won't be able to delete it and you don't have proper customer service to reqest this. They stop every communication when you request your profile to be deleted.
September 3, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear Ana,
We want to reassure you that members can request account deletion anytime by contacting support through the “Help center” section. Profiles are not kept once deletion is confirmed. If your request wasn’t processed, please email us again with your registered details so we can close it promptly.
Discouraging front cover
These so called 'members' all look too easy and some too beautiful females to be alone , so may be either gold diggers or doorstep migrant 'lovers' looking for an easy ready made stepping stone around immigration laws. Too risky for someone like me looking for a genuine relationship .
September 1, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Hi Oshang,
We understand your concern. Please know that every member’s profile is reviewed as part of the profile verification process.
and those with suspicious motives are removed once reported. While attractive profiles may raise doubts, our platform has clear safeguards against misuse and fraud. If you’re seeking genuine connections, we recommend using the verification filters and reporting any profile that doesn’t feel authentic our team investigates each case promptly. Please report it to us at support@datemyage.com along with relevant details.
Its a total scam
Its a total scam, fake profiles , all these beautiful extremely successful women who need expensive gifts to keep chatting , and will not go to wahtapp of WeChat (as the continual cash drain would disappear) tried cancelling , the email confirmation will not allow me too , will call again and if no luck will report to the appropriate authorities - THIS IS NOT A DATING SITE , its a scam BE WARNED !!!
September 1, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Hi Keith,
We’re truly sorry you feel this way. Profiles requiring gifts or avoiding off-site contact are not representative of our guidelines, members are not allowed to request money or material compensation, and such behavior should be reported so we can remove those accounts. Regarding cancellation: every subscription can be ended directly via account settings or through the store where it was purchased, and our support team can assist if confirmation emails are unclear. Please reach out with your account details at support@datemyage.com so we can resolve this quickly for you.
Has to just be a money grab
Has to just be a money grab. All replies from professional men in Spanish or Portuguese speaking countries despite my insistence on local. All beyond 'average dad' look.
August 27, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Hi Sandia,
We hear your frustration, and you're right to expect matches that align with your preferences. While we offer global connections, you do have full control over who you interact with. If you're still receiving messages outside your location or language preferences despite adjusting your filters, that’s not how it’s supposed to work — and we want to fix it.
Please send a quick message to support@datemyage.com
with your user ID and “local filter issue” in the subject line. We’ll manually review your settings and ensure you’re seeing only relevant matches.
Appreciate you speaking up — your feedback helps us improve the experience for everyone.
Avoid
The reason why I subscribed to this website was because of the high rating it was given on another site. It was only second to Match and had a score over 9/10.
I had only one conversation - which did feel pretentious. She strangely had 30+ photo's on her profile plus she was a "Free User". When I asked her to continue the conversation on WhatsApp she refused which curbed my interest.
I then realized that these tokens you receive after payment became less after EVERY MINUTE you spend on the website. This is when I immediately asked for a refund.
I did receive one a day or so later but I'm still giving one star. It's one thing ripping people off, it's another playing with their feelings - and anyone associated with this site should be thoroughly ashamed of themselves.
August 24, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear Zimba,
thank you for sharing your experience. On Datemyage.com, Every member can definitely exchange contact details through appropriate features however, such activities has to be a mutual decision between members.
Moreover, Communication is based on a credit system, which is clearly explained before purchase, and credits are deducted depending on the type and duration of activity. We’re glad to see your refund was processed promptly, and we’ll pass along your feedback about transparency so we can improve clarity around costs and user interactions.
It is a SCAM
It is a SCAM. For one month I have been following directions to cancel. They say they will send a confirmation email to finalize but it never arrives. I receive all other Datemyage notifications, so I know there's network connectivity.
I have reached out to my credit card support to report this scam site.
Datemyage support is all automated/fake, so you'll never connect with a live agent.
That and when you join, you receive tons of AI connections. You'll know immediately because they love the heck out of you on the first message. Its disgusting and such a let down.
August 27, 2024
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear John,
We’re sorry to hear this. Cancellation can be completed directly from your account under “Billing” and does require confirming via email—if you’re not receiving that email, please check spam/junk or contact our support team so they can resend manually. Our support is staffed by real agents, not automation, though initial replies may include automated instructions. Regarding messages, some members do show strong interest quickly, but if you suspect a profile is not genuine, please use the “Report” button and our Trust & Safety team will review it immediately.
chat bot to ask you top up credit
his website uses chatbots to make you believe you are talking to a verified member. Please be aware that all so-called "verified members" are actually free accounts, while you have to pay if you want to chat with them. For example, once I sent a long message to a “member,” which cost me 1 credit. The person replied that long texts were uncomfortable to read and asked me to use the app’s feature for long messages—which costs 10 credits! At that moment, I realized I was chatting with a bot. To test it, I sent an even longer message, which the bot could not handle. Then I asked for a simple photo of a hand gesture, but the bot made excuses. Of course, a chatbot cannot instantly provide a real photo.
Please don’t be fooled by this scam.
August 19, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear Kelly,
We want to clarify this point. Datemyage.com does require profile verification and any fraudulent activities are strictly prohibited by our policy. Members can create profiles, to unlock full communication. Different features (short texts, long letters, photos, videos) have different credit costs, and this is outlined before use. If you ever suspect a profile is fake or avoiding your requests, we urge you to report it so our Trust & Safety team can investigate and remove it if necessary.
This platform is garbage !!
This platform is garbage !!! It’s filled with bots not real men and you’ll spend $40 in “credits” in like 15 minutes. There are zero free features. Honestly I gave my number to three men in my city / asked them to meet up and all of them had same response “oh that’s moving too fast, let’s get to know each other for a while” and go back to spitting these ridiculous poetic fake questions. So fake! Honestly that site should be ashamed of themselves !! Do not try this app - all scammers. I hope this site gets reported and SHUT DOWN its bs and some women will be scamme and lose lots of $! You can’t even set searches to just your area and so all these men from Brazil and Italy fill your inbox and then to read anything they zap your credits. It’s the worst app out there and how are they not in big trouble and shut down yet is beyond me ! Stay away from this site. Go use the real ones please.
August 19, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear Jen,
We’re sorry your experience felt this way. Any profile suspected of such behavior can be reported with one click, and our Trust & Safety team investigates promptly. Communication on the site is credit-based, which is explained before use, and location filters are available under “Search” settings, though some users may still reach out internationally. While not every interaction leads to a meeting, many do result in genuine connections, and your feedback helps us improve transparency and safeguards.
Two Different men and many thousands of…
Two Different men and many thousands of dollars later I can say without any Doubt that this site is a 100% scam and even the last person that I talked to admitted to being a Chat Operator in the last message they sent me. They impersonated a very good looking Brazilian man and lead many women into a belief of love lying the whole time to make this site money. One of them actually they sent a video from who scammed me even so this site is atrociously hurtful to people and their psychological health and their financial wellness. It needs to be removed. Get ZERO stars would be more like it. I requested a refund on both scam accounts but no they said that it was not found to be a scam and that they are both free members. Save yourself and never give this site any money. it’s a total scam ...... 09/10/25 now this scammer is threatening me too .. you. Did nothing to stop it or to protect anyone despite your claims . I don’t give anyone permission to use my photos !!!
August 13, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear Member,
We’re truly sorry for the experience you’ve described. To clarify, all members are required to comply with our strict authenticity and conduct rules, and impersonation is a serious violation of those rules. When you flagged the accounts, our team investigated thoroughly, but as per our Terms, refunds can only be issued if conclusive evidence of fraudulent activity is verified in our system. We understand how painful and frustrating it can be when conversations don’t reflect genuine intent, and we urge you to continue reporting any suspicious profiles directly via the “Report” button so we can take swift action. While we cannot remove the platform as you suggested, we are committed to enforcing stronger protections for our members’ emotional and financial safety.
Scammers
Scammers — a complete group of fraudsters. They deliberately deceive people to make money. Unfortunately, I only realized I had been scammed after spending $20,000 on this website. It is both shameful and despicable to exploit people’s emotions for profit. I will report this to the police, at the very least to ensure that this scam operation is removed from the Singapore market and to prevent others from being deceived again.
Even after I changed my profile picture to that of a man, I still received many messages and video invitations. Like vampires, they scam other people’s money. It is utterly shameful.
August 19, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear Danica,
We hear the seriousness of your concerns and want to address them directly. Our platform does not employ or encourage deceptive practices—every member is required to abide by strict verification and conduct standards. When accounts are reported, our Fraud Prevention Team investigates, and those found violating our rules are removed immediately. While we cannot reverse past charges outside the scope of our Terms, we urge you to file a formal report with our Support Team so we can review the specific accounts you engaged with. Regarding your observation of receiving messages regardless of your profile photo, please note that our system does not generate conversations. We strongly encourage you to use the in-app “Report” feature on any suspicious invitations so we can act quickly to protect our members.
Rip off …
This app is set up to have you constantly pay money. You never meet anybody you just continually pour your money into the app so you can supposedly talk to other people. This app is a total rip off!
August 18, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear Gina,
We understand your frustration. DateMyAge.com works on a credit-based system where costs apply to premium communication features, but creating and browsing a profile is free. While not every interaction leads to an in-person connection, thousands of members do successfully build relationships here. If you feel your experience hasn’t reflected that, we recommend reaching out to our Support Team so we can review your account activity in detail and suggest safer, more cost-effective ways to use the platform.
SCAM!! Steals your money
SCAM!!! They keep charging me when I already cancelled my subscription like 3 times! Had to change my credit card so they stop charging me. This is a total scam and unethical business. REPORT!!!!
Response to their response:
I called and have cancelled a million times and you keep charging me!!! When I call you don’t pick up! Total scam site. You should be ashamed of your shady practices.
July 29, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear Rosa,
We’re sorry for the billing concerns you’ve experienced. Please note that DateMyAge.com does not process charges once a subscription is cancelled through the proper steps outlined in your account settings. If charges continued, it may indicate the cancellation was not fully confirmed or tied to a different payment method on file. Our Support Team can locate and verify any duplicate or unintended charges and resolve them. We encourage you to contact us with your cancellation details so we can review your account history and ensure no further billing occurs.
I believe I was communicating with a…
I believe I was communicating with a bot. The communications were inconsistent and vague when asked certain questions. When I tried to cancel the subscription, I went through all of the advised steps listed on the site, but when it came to clicking on the "Confirm Cancellation" within the customer service email, I continued to get the message " there is an issue with the cancellation. Try again." I tried again, and again and again, but always received the same message. I contacted CS, but was only told to follow the steps, which were the same I had already followed. I will have to cancel my credit card and contact BBB to report them.
August 16, 2025
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Reply from Datemyage
Dear Pam,
We’re sorry to hear you ran into repeated errors when trying to confirm cancellation. The confirmation link in the email should complete the process instantly, so if you kept seeing that error message, something went wrong on the technical side. In such cases, our support team can manually cancel the subscription upon request—no need to repeat the same steps. Please reach out with your account email (without clicking the faulty link again), and we will close the subscription directly and confirm in writing.
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