Great service. Re-stock updates and regular discount codes. Fast delivery with tracking info. Well packaged, safe and discreet. Never had any issues with this business :) xo
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Found self and more through Lauren Ashley Gordon's recommendations for various items. Very impressed, easy website to navigate. User friendly. Swift packing and shipping. Descreet packaging. Love thei... See more
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Good vibrations but way to tight. Quality of materials is good, really smooth. Satifiyer products are really good it's ashame it's too tight. Maybe it's just because we've not used one before and it'... See more
It feels really good to be able to support a sex-positive business with values and principles that align with my own. So often sex shops and resources are curated and written through the male lens. I... See more
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Self & More is the UK's sex-positive sex toy store. We celebrate pleasure and aim to help you find the tools and the language needed to have even better sex with yourself and others. Discreet shipping and free UK delivery on orders over £35. We stock only quality, body-safe products and will happily provide a personalised toy recommendation for anyone - simply drop us an email to get the conversation started.
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Kemp House, 152 - 160 City Road, EC1V 2NX, London, United Kingdom
- info@selfandmore.com
- selfandmore.co.uk
New fav!
I purchased after watching Lauren on insta, to say it’s a game changer is an understatement!! Love that you charge it up rather than have to find batteries too 👌
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Yay so pleased you're a fan Terrie, enjoy!!
Lauren @ Self & More
Just buy it
Just buy it. Seriously. Whether you use it with someone else or alone, it just makes everything so much better. Stars floating round your head level of goodness.
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Now that is a glowing review! So glad you're enjoying your purchase Jessica, and thanks for taking the time to leave us this review :)
Lauren @ Self & More
All-round great
Really easy to order and the packaging was a lovely bonus! Arrived in good time
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Jayne,
Thanks so much for taking the time to leave us a review. Really glad you found the order process simple - that's what we aim for!
Have a great day,
Lauren @ Self & More
Placed an order with Self & More
Placed an order with Self & More, it could not be any more easy. Clear communication of which stage my order was at. The parcel arrived in a plain brown packaging. Fab service
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi T,
Really great to hear you're pleased with the service. Hope you're enjoying your purchase and thanks so much for supporting our small business!
Lauren @ Self & More
Stellar
Absolutely love Self & More, my absolute go to for toys now. Thank you Poppy for the stellar products, amazing and informative social media content plus the quick delivery. Thank you Lauren Gordon for influencing me. My clit is forever grateful to you.
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hey Al,
Big love to you (and your clit) for choosing us. Always appreciate your support <3
Lauren @ Self & More
Super fast delivery before Christmas.
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Livvy,
Thanks so much for taking the time to leave us a review and supporting our small business. We really appreciate it!
Have a lovely day,
Lauren @ Self & More
Fantastic service
Fantastic service! A massive choice of products.
I had a discount code, but even without that, the prices are more than reasonable. My purchase arrived quickly, in discreet packaging and was exactly as described. I’ll definitely shop with Self & More again!
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hey Emily,
Thanks so much for leaving us this lovely feedback Looking forward to seeing your next order pop up! Give me a shout if you'd like any help choosing something new.
Have a lovely day,
Lauren @ Self & More
Absolutely love Self & More
Absolutely love Self & More. Products work perfectly and are very satisfying. Delivery was super fast too.
Highly Recommend!
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Aurora,
Thanks so much for this lovely review, we appreciate your support so much!
Have a great day,
Lauren @ Self & More
Reply from Self & More
So pleased to hear you're enjoying your purchase! Thanks so much for taking the time to leave us a review :)
Lauren @ Self & More
Super fast delivery
Super fast delivery, perfect condition product. Very impressed, will be buying again.
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Thanks so much for choosing to shop with us, and for taking the time to leave us this review!
Have a lovely day,
Lauren @ Self & More
Recommend!
I love Self & More, probably wouldn’t order toys from anywhere else. Great selection of quality products, great discreet delivery, feels like the owner(s?) are knowledgable and really care. Also their sex positivity has encouraged me to explore new things :)
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Emma, thanks so much for leaving us this really lovely review. It's so good to know that people are enjoying what we do and feeling encouraged to try some fun things! Hope you love your purchase.
Lauren @ Self & More
More than just a sex toy boutique
Self&More deliver on so many different levels. The products and services are great, everything comes on time and is as sold. What I love about Self&More is their resources, their blog, their social media and their presence in the LGBTQIA+ space. They're all-around good guys from their environmental packaging to their excellent service. The owner is a total babe, too. I always get my kicks here!
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hey Katie,
Thanks so much for leaving us this amazing review! Hugely appreciated, and thanks for all your support. Totally agree about Poppy being a total babe <3 <3
Hope you're enjoying your purchase!
Lauren @ Self & More
Reply from Self & More
Hurray, always great to hear our customers are happy! Hope you're enjoying your purchase and thanks so much for supporting our small business.
Lauren @ Self & More
Fantastic!
Love my new products! Wish I’d discovered them years ago, makes me satisfyingly wet as an otters pocket! Fantastic customer care and the team were happy to help and advise, Professional and personal without any awkwardness or embarrassment. I started following on Instagram and find the product reviews really helpful. Wouldn’t shop anywhere else now I’ve found them!
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Satisfyingly wet as an otters pocket - we can't ask for a better review than that! Super pleased that you're enjoying your purchase, give us a shout if you ever need recommendations or ideas for your next one!
Lauren @ Self & More
Sexy, easy and non threatening
Found self and more through Lauren Ashley Gordon's recommendations for various items. Very impressed, easy website to navigate. User friendly. Swift packing and shipping. Descreet packaging. Love their Instagram. Will definitely continue to use. They've help spice up my solo and joint sex life more than i could imagine.
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hey Jade, this is so good to hear - thanks so much for leaving us this lovely feedback. Always happy to have helped add a bit of spice! So glad you're enjoying your purchase. Give me a shout if you ever fancy something new.
Lauren @ Self & More
Reply from Self & More
Hi Ruth,
Thanks so much for leaving us this feedback, so pleased to hear you're happy to recommend us!
Have a great day,
Lauren @ Self & More
Fantastic Customer Experience
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Thanks so much for leaving us this review Rob, really glad to hear you had a positive experience shopping with us!
Have a great day,
Lauren @ Self & More
Self & More is absolutely amazing!!
Self & More is an absolutely amazing, women-run, empowering brand. I can’t recommend them enough. The range of toys they stock are suitable for all, beginners, partners, different body types etc. My purchases from Self & More have really levelled up my sex life, my orgasms and my relationship with my partner too. Also - Lauren (@laurenashleygordon) is the QUEEN who recommended this brand and has been super helpful since then with her new role working at Self & More.
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Ah Gabrielle you are lovely, thanks so much for this excellent review! Really glad we've been able to help - levelling up orgasms and pleasure is the name of the game!
Have a lovely day,
Lauren @ Self & More
Support lovely independent shop owners!
Support lovely independent shop owners!
What feels even better than buying new sexy gear as a treat? Buying the goods from a lovely sex positive human such as Poppy/Self & More! Super friendly and knowledgeable - would 100% recommend to a friend :)
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Yes!! Plenty of pleasure AND shop small <3 thanks so much for taking the time to leave us this review.
Have a lovely day,
Lauren @ Self & More
Absolutely stunning
Self&More is amazing – I love how the communicate their products, how they manage their social media, how quickly and discretely they deliver the orders. Absolute game changers.
I wish them all the best and recommend them to my friends. Lotes of love xxx
April 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Thank you SO much for all your support Aleksandra!
Have a great day,
Lauren @ Self & More
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