bunch of beautiful women there. Too bad all their profiles are professionally done because they were purchased from the stock photography house. Great place just to chat, because the women seem to be... See more
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Lots of interactions.. I mean I dont use online apps but its a lot to handle or its ok.. but for any little move.. like sending a reply or mail you need to pay. Its not for having sonekind of social... See more
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I'm not sure how I'm feeling about site ? I didn't realize all the men are not in the US ? It would make it very difficult to meet for a date when I'm in Arizona USA, and he's in Ukraine ,?
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I am new on the platform but I found it interesting cas immediately I was connected and got to start chatting to my matches
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Violetdates is an online dating platform designed for those who value deep connection and heartfelt conversations. Whether you're looking to add warmth to your day or enjoy light romantic communication, Violetdates creates the space to let those moments bloom naturally. Our platform focuses on helping people connect at their own pace, without pressure or expectations. Here, you can share thoughts, express yourself freely, and enjoy the experience of talking to like-minded individuals. It’s about enjoying meaningful exchanges and seeing where the moment leads — one message at a time. Every conversation is a chance to discover someone who brings positivity into your routine. With Violetdates, romance unfolds gently, bringing joy, comfort, and a touch of excitement into your life. Join Violetdates to enjoy thoughtful communication in a safe and welcoming environment. Whether you're here to connect with someone new or simply to explore romantic conversations, this is your place to feel inspired and enjoy every moment as it comes. Let romance bloom.
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3.6
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Firstly the company its private.People…
Firstly the company its private.People l chat with seems to have respect so far .They are so humble regardless where you are from
February 18, 2026
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Reply from VioletDates
Hi Zanele,
Really glad you're enjoying the people here, that's exactly the kind of community we love to see! Hope the great connections keep coming!
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
exciting and fun to talk to other…
exciting and fun to talk to other people you haven't met yet
February 18, 2026
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Reply from VioletDates
Hi Janet,
We appreciate you sharing your experience with us.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Puse,
Sounds like you've found your people here, hope the connections keep growing!
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Its nice to talk to a real man
February 15, 2026
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Reply from VioletDates
Hi Lynne,
That's great! Enjoy connecting.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
No pressure to communicate
February 14, 2026
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Reply from VioletDates
Hi Ana,
Glad you appreciate that! Thanks for sharing.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Maswa,
Happy that's working for you!
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Is difficult chatting if you try to…
Is difficult chatting if you try to sell credits immediately, you don't give the chance to enjoy the platform because you can't talk if you don't have credits
February 2, 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Iveth,
Some features on the platform require credits, and charges apply only when those features are used. This structure allows users to manage their activity at their own pace and choose which options they want to access. If you’d like more clarity on credit usage or need help navigating available features, our support team is available at support@violetdates.help and will be glad to assist.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
The guys seems to be honest and not…
The guys seems to be honest and not scammers...time will tell.
January 30, 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Veranese,
Thanks so much for leaving a review, your input really matters to us.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
When you send virtual gifts out
Update:
I already got response from violetdates.com as following. No need to clarify. You can fool people once but not twice. I got virtual gift but no credit reward. You charge people sending out virtual gift. But no credit reward when they received. I don't think your business model is right. I said the fact. I hope others are aware of that so dont waste money.
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When you send virtual gifts out, credits are deducted based on the type of gift. However, when you receive a virtual gift, no credits are added to your account. The following information is the response provided by the VioletDates.com provider:
On our platform, all content, including virtual gifts, cannot be monetized. A gift is simply a thoughtful gesture from you or your friend and doesn’t hold any monetary value. It’s all about spreading a little extra cheer and keeping things fun!
January 4, 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi there,
Credits are used to access certain features on the platform, and how they’re applied can vary depending on the selected options. These mechanics are designed to support interaction and platform functionality. If you have questions about how credits work or need clarification for your account, please contact support@violetdates.help, and our team will be happy to assist.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
I had a decent interaction wirh my…
I had a decent interaction wirh my pears and it was just so welcoming
However the time span on the free credits should be extended.
January 17, 2026
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Reply from VioletDates
Hi Sophia,
Appreciate you taking the time to share this. We’re glad the experience has felt welcoming, and your suggestion is noted.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Joe,
While registration and browsing are free, certain interactive features require credits to maintain a secure, moderated environment. This setup allows you to pay only for the services you choose to use while controlling your spending. If you have questions about packages or want to learn how to use credits more effectively, please contact us at support@violetdates.help
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Marie,
Thanks for the rating and for checking us out.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
I must pay for chatting with people!!
I must pay for chatting with people!!! I prefer check out!!
January 12, 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Liakada,
Our platform is designed so that you only pay for the specific interactive services you choose to use, while browsing and registration remain free. This credit-based system allows us to maintain a moderated, secure, and well-supported environment for all our users.
For any questions about our packages or how to make the most of your experience, please reach out to our team at support@violetdates.help.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Nornor,
That's awesome! Hope you make great connections.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
My interactions have been interesting…
My interactions have been interesting and respectful..
Coming from South Africa the cos of credits is difficult.. especially because finds r low..
January 8, 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Leeann,
Thanks for taking the time to share your feedback with us, we really appreciate it.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Fake profile
I was talking with a nice handsome guy, actually so many of them are atractive, kind and successful. But he didn't give much information about him, just ask about me, what I like and push the conversation based in what I like, easy to get catch... you need to pay lots of money to keep the conversation... and I was enjoying talk with this guy until I find the same profile in a site called secretmeet.com. Exactly the same profile, the same informations and pictures I start the conversation and yes, this guy didn't know anything about me. How come? If it was the same person in boths sites? How they behaive differently and one of them didn't know about me? I mention to the guy and he didn't see bother about, why? If someone are using your profile you will not be worried? Stressed? Don't trust, they just want your money. Don't pay to talk with fake profiles!
January 1, 2026
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Ana,
Safety and security are our top priorities, and we maintain professional moderation to help prevent deceptive behavior. While we cannot control the behavior or intentions of individual users, we provide mechanisms to maintain safety and security. Many profiles on our platform are verified according to our Terms of Service to help maintain a secure environment.
If you encounter suspicious activity or believe a profile has violated our rules, please contact our support team at support@violetdates.com so we can investigate the case directly. Additionally, profiles that violate the platform’s guidelines can be blocked, helping you manage your interactions safely. Your input is extremely valuable in helping us enforce our Community Guidelines and keep the community safe.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
All fake profiles.
December 29, 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Sylvia,
We place strong emphasis on keeping the platform safe and reliable for everyone. Deceptive behavior or misuse is not tolerated, and many profiles are verified in line with our Terms of Service.
If you’ve encountered profiles that seem suspicious, you can report them directly using the in-platform reporting tools or reach out to our support team. All reports are reviewed carefully so appropriate action can be taken. For further assistance, please contact support@violetdates.com.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
This is my first time on site ? No past experience
I'm not sure how I'm feeling about site ? I didn't realize all the men are not in the US ? It would make it very difficult to meet for a date when I'm in Arizona USA, and he's in Ukraine ,?
December 29, 2024
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Karen,
Please know that our platform includes users from different countries. To better match your preferences, you can use the search and location filters to narrow down profiles and focus on those that fit what you’re looking for. If you need help adjusting your filters or reviewing your settings, our support team is available at support@violetdates.com and will be happy to assist.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Pay phone dating
I feel that although I have met nice guys on this site that maybe they work for this company. Like they get a kick back? I’m a lady. I’m not desperate. I thought this was a dating site to meet people. Instead I get bombarded with really young men every single day…even though I put my age requirements. Then when you get to chatting it’s like a pay phone. 📞 you have to keep putting coins to connect. Maybe this is a site for people who want fake. I do real. I fed the machine but now I’m done. You live and learn. I’m over this site and unless you want to pay to talk ….i think you will be over it too. Beware!!!
December 27, 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Sherri,
Our platform is built for online communication, and users join with different expectations and communication styles. Deceptive behavior or misuse is not tolerated, and many profiles are verified in line with our Terms of Service.
Our community includes users of various ages, and while age filters are available to help narrow results, profile visibility can still vary based on activity and availability. Certain interactive features on the platform are credit-based, helping users control their activity and spending.
If your filter settings didn’t work as expected or you’ve encountered interactions that raised concerns, this is something our support team should review directly. Please contact support@violetdates.com so they can look into the details and assist further.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
I am new on the platform but I found it…
I am new on the platform but I found it interesting cas immediately I was connected and got to start chatting to my matches
December 26, 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Lebogang,
Thank you for the feedback and your support! We’re always looking to improve, so if there’s anything we could do to earn those extra stars, don’t hesitate to let us know. Your satisfaction matters to us.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
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