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Married Dating, Affairs, Married Women, Extramarital Affair. Ashley Madison is the online personals & dating destination for casual encounters, married dating, secret romance and adult fantasy.
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I tried AshleyMadison hoping it would…
I tried AshleyMadison hoping it would be a straightforward way to meet people. Instead I found many inactive or dubious profiles, and real connections were rare. The site prompts you to pay for extra features, but they didn't seem to improve anything. Customer support was unhelpful when I had issues. Overall — not worth the time or money, and pretty disappointing.
I signed up for AshleyMadison against my better judgment. Looking back now, I realize that I smelled a rat 🐀 right away
Moreover I knew what a legit dating site should be like (I have used FlingAF.com
and several other good services). But anyway I just wanted to use up my credits so I engaged in conversations with what I thought were real women on AshleyMadison. The majority of them turned out to be scammers. They tried to rip me off blatantly and openly. They were pretty straightforward. Others turned out to be AI bots. I must admit they were quite sophisticated (cutting-edge technologies haha) and able to hold a meaningful conversation for 5-10 minutes but it was still pretty easy to identify them. So I left AshleyMadison as soon as I used up my credits.
Know before you indulge!!!
I'm a woman and I must say Ashley has changed! There is nothing but con artist, S_d's, scamming men, and fake profiles. I took a 3-year hiatus from the site and returned December 2024 let me say "meeting someone that's like-minded is far and in between". The men lack quality.
The fact that this site ask for your government ID is diabolical, how dare them after they had a breach in 2015. I would never download my ID to their site. Moving forward, putting in your profile that you will ask for their S_D status if there's a match apparently is a problem. No matter none of these sites are safe anymore when it comes to protective healthy engagements. Ashley Madison has become a "free for all" the men that reach out are no where near my 'profile suggestion'. Peace
Ashley Madison Is A Scam
If I could give less then a 1 star I would. I spent credits and have been bombarded with fake profiles. I asked for a refund and was denied. From what I read this is a scam ran my AM workers wth fake accounts called engagers and they get you to spend your credits. I'm sure this is illegal as hell and will be seeking legal counsel.
The real Ashley Madison and her Husband…
The real Ashley Madison and her Husband Darren are living very well as Scott Morgenstern aka Scott Alexander, a JetBlue pilot. Ashley herself continues to con her way through life using electronic transfers to steal millions of dollars each night to keep her and her life at a level she has become accustomed. She uses various names such as mostly commonly known as Susan Alexander aka Rachel Yu, Sheila Smith, Courtney Rather( she was once also married to rapper Vanilla Ice and drummers from Creed named Scott Rather, but is currently still surrounded and attached to her real husband Darren aka Scott Alexander. They live lavishly in a large home in a double gated community called Spruce Creek Fly In which is located in Port Orange, Florida. She lives a fast life of mischief and felonies while darting around the globe, most Central America and Grand Cayman in one of her many private jets. If you don’t believe that the data breach was an inside job, your may be mistaken on large scale. She secretly still owns Ashley Madison with Darren. The CEO Mr. Bidderman also lives lavishly in the area and is even on the New Smyrna Beach City Commission under the name of Brian Ashley(see the connection) all living as illegal aliens in Florida. This is currently as of November 18, 2025.
AM is a scam
I created a profile and was inundated with likes, winks, requests for photos and 'collect messages', 19 in total in 5 days.
I then paid $200 for 500 credits, and have had 3 contacts in 4 weeks, all asking immediately to switch to Telegram or WhatsApp which means scammers. I've sent about 20 carefully written messages to supposed women without a single response of any kind. There's no doubt AM is a sham and a scam
If I could rate it zero stars
If I could rate it zero stars, I would absolute waste of money waste of time I spent over $1000 in every single girl I talk to was a scammer either they tried to blackmail you for something or a bitcoin crap or it was just absolutely ridiculous and the signs are there so I wasted my time and money and people that just don’t exist or they’re trying to scam you the whole time spending money. Trust me waste of time.
Complete Garbage Product
Bought credits only to be hit up by a series of fake profiles. Contacted customer service for a full or partial refund, but got nothing. I willfully spent the money only to find out what a horrible product I spent it on. Whatever they're doing to prevent fake profiles is not working for the customer, but it does work for them!
Horrible experience,They are a…
Horrible experience,They are a shameless company that’s committing highway robbery on people exploiting vulnerable people that are looking for some company,For whatever the reason maybe..95% of their profiles of Women are fake and to do anything on the site you need credits which are extremely expensive and the platform is setup in such a way to make you go through those credits in a accelerated fashion.Youre gonna go through hundreds and possibly thousands of dollars and probably not even chat with a real person the whole time that you’re on the platform.Save your money and do not give it to these THEIVES!
The site is full of bots and scammers
The site is full of bots and scammers. You pay money to try to talk to a real person and all you do is waste that money. Conversation start nice, but within a couple of chats, they try to get you to invest. When you don't want to invest all of a sudden the profile disappears. Out of thirty women, I try to contact all thirty were scammers.
I wrote this to their customer service…
I wrote this to their customer service and received no response:
I’ve been on here a number of times over the past 5 years or so and have to say probably my last time. My issues are as follows:
1) Way too many inactive profiles on here some from when I first joined.
2) So many fake/scammer profiles even Stevie Wonder could pick them out.
3) Constantly getting messages from AM checkout hot members in your area or a specific profile concerning her hidden desires. A lot of them are not even close to what I’m looking for and many contain what I’m talking about in 1 and 2 above.
I was recently on another site that had a feature showing last long in on the site which is a great feature in my opinion. What does the green dot on a profile supposed to mean because they certainly aren’t active.
As I said I’ve been on a number of times when I left I gave the same reasons as above but this time once again same old same old.
Pretty frustrating when you send certified messages and they aren’t even opened which leads me to believe once again the files aren’t active. If someone opens and doesn’t contact me I have no issue with that but when your company knows they’re not actually active and I waste credits it doesn’t say much about your concern for customer service.
AM sucks very unreliable, they constantly give you unending charges
They need to be upfront & honest instead untrustworthy & lie about charging for every single message, it's impossible to communicate there!!👎👎👎👎👎🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
They get an F for a grade!!
Ashley Madison is a sham
Ashley Madison is a sham. 95% of female profiles are fake and/or scammers. What a terrible experience. WASTE OF TIME AND MONEY. Not an honorable organization. SHAMEFUL.
Full of blackmailers
Firstly the fact that I got messages but once I subscribed I realised these were all just prompts by the site to get me to subscribe.
It is very expensive.
Mostly fake profiles.
I chatted to one supposed woman and then she wanted to share contact details. Stupidly I trusted her. Turns out she was actually a blackmailer and threatened to contact my wife and employer. I promptly cut all communication and cancelled my membership. What a scamming site. What a fool I am.
Ashley Madison
It's a shitty site. Ashley Madison that is.
It's beginning to ask for government ID..
They wouldn't let real people join, unless you verify with government ID. Who'd fall for that type of thing in 2025. They literally had data leak few yrs ago.
I'm a real woman and I will not be submitting my government ID to that type of site. It's an affair site not a typical dating site.
Almost all fake profiles and bots
Almost all fake profiles and bots. Company just tries to get you to use credits sending messages. Scammers immediately ask you to go to Whatsapp or telegram
Most of the profiles are fake
Most of the profiles are fake. The credits get used every time you do anything.
They make no effort to improve, and are fine with fake AI bots.
They make no effort to improve anymore than your cell carrier wants to stop spam calls. To many fake reviews. It is 99.8 % fake profiles trying to get you to spend credits. Since the onset of AI it is 10 X worse. Even to "Certified" people are fake. Use your common sense and ask a question AI would not know and BAM! A woman told me she was just up the road I lied and said I am in LA and she came back "So am I" a certified account.
I signed up for AshleyMadison against my better judgment. Looking back now, I realize that I smelled a rat right away
Moreover I knew what a legit dating site should be like (I have used NautyAF.com
and several other good services). But anyway I just wanted to use up my credits so I engaged in conversations with what I thought were real women on AshleyMadison. The majority of them turned out to be scammers. They tried to rip me off blatantly and openly. They were pretty straightforward. Others turned out to be AI bots. I must admit they were quite sophisticated (cutting-edge technologies haha) and able to hold a meaningful conversation for 5-10 minutes but it was still pretty easy to identify them. So I left AshleyMadison as soon as I used up my credits.
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