Ashley Madison Reviews 631

After spending $85 I could barely do anything without spending more money. I deleted my account the same day it was created, but I was denied a refund. Ashley Madison is a scam. Don't waste your money with them.

This site is all fake and it takes your money and you get nothing in return. All the profiles are fake and they have people behind the scenes acting like they want to meet you so you spend more money...FAKE FAKE

AM is a scam. Try another dating site. There are mostly fake accounts on AM. Don't waste your time and money.

HORRBILE!!! WAY TOO MANY scammers! and only 2 people found that matched my search criteria, and one quickly started asking me for $$.

I paid 169.00 for one months credit in 2 days i had no credits are you kidding me. The biggest rip off site I will never mess with any of these dating sites again. I go out meet people before I try another website dating app.

I bought £69.99 credits. I was able to send about 7 very short messages before the credits were used. That's £10 a message !!!
There doesn't seem to be anywhere to monitor your credit use.
I got an email " you have a message from ...." There was no message or member by that name. There was no response from Ashley Madison to this problem.

This website is the biggest garbage pale scam. It is just tons and tons of fake ass profiles. I am shocked at how down hill this dumpster fire has gone.

Ashleymadison now requesting government ID is a joke 😃😃 immediately you sign up ..they delete/suspend your account then start asking for government ID. I will never upload my ID to a site like that or do a selfie verification just because a site asked for it. The control is too much for an affair site.
It literally not that serious and most of the men on there are mediocre to say the least.

Who is going to develop another competitive affair app that won’t stress us out? Ashley is ridiculous.
You can't sign up as a real woman..you can't report an account as a real woman without getting bullied by Ashley. They'll immediately remove you because they want to keep the bots for the men to date 😃😃😃

I've been on and off AM since 2018, with three successful, long-term relationship with wonderful women. I've written other in-depth reviews of AM, so, if you want a broader look at my experience, check those out.

I have a relatively unique perspective of seeing how women react to men on AM and, now, for the last couple of years, how men react to women.

My current GF and I started enjoying MFM threesomes around three years ago. To find more male partners, we went on AM as "Attached Female Seeking Males." Our username made it clear that we were a couple, seeking other couples and/or male/female partners.

Most of the guys are absolutely pathetic, with no game at all. First, 90% of their profiles are close to blank. Some have absolutely no background information, just age, weight, height, ethnicity and sometimes that's mostly blank.

Guys, you need to talk about your interests and what kind of relationship that you're seeking. Talk about why you're on AM, but don't badmouth your partner. Talk about respecting the woman and knowing how hard it must be for them to sign up for the site. Talk about being discreet and protecting their existing relationship and how you want to meet them in a safe place for them, when they're ready.

You don't need a book to get started, but you do need at least a couple of real paragraphs. The one-sentence come-on marks you as an idiot and immediate reject. It is VERY easy to Block a dumb ass on AM. Women will not waste time with losers that don't know how to talk to women.

When it's time to move to a chat app, suggest something like Signal, where they can use a username and not disclose their phone number until they're comfortable. Safety is HUGE for them and should be for you also.

Sending a "Wink" or "Fave" is a total waste of your money. You MUST write something responsive to her profile to have any hope of interaction. Read between her lines and try to tweak for things that seem important to her. You only get ONE CHANCE.

Based on some testing that I've done, there are around 20 men for every woman!!! The odds are, indeed, bad to start; however, if you put together the beginnings of a meaningful discussion and have a compelling profile, then your odds skyrocket vs. the bumps on a log, which are the majority of the men. It is simply pathetic.

Oh, DO be careful, because there are scammers. AM said a few weeks back that they would tighten vetting of women, but it doesn't seem to have improved. If a woman Winks at you or Faves you, out of the blue, with no note from you, she's likely a scammer and don't waste time or money pursuing her, particularly if she's considerably younger. Not me, but in the eight years that I've been on and off AM, I know of three guys that have been financially scammed, or threatened with exposure, etc. Protect your phone number until you're really comfortable, then, as soon as you get her number, do a background check. If thing don't jive, block, block, block. This is true of almost any sex dating site.

Oh, very few women want to see your penis. (There is a minority that want big penises, but they usually make that clear. If you qualify, then you should talk about it in you initial message to such a woman. More women are worried about being injured by too big). She'll ask when she's comfortable with you and ready to take it to a mattress. Some (most?) women are offended when guys lead with their penises. Yes, they really want it and that's why they're on AM, but not until they're ready.

Bottom line, you can't just check boxes and expect responses. Plan on two or three months of searching. Look morning and/or evening for new listings and respond immediately to one that interests you. They'll receive over 100 proposition in the first 24-hours, so it's best to be at the front of the line.

Ashley Madison is a rip off
When you talk to same person they aren’t supposed to charge you credits but they do. All I get is messages from gold diggers. They don’t answer your call or emails

I have been an Ashley Madison user on and off for decades. It used to supply an occasional date from time to time. My last date using the app was about three years ago and that was only a very sexy, one time meeting which is not my SOP. I still believe there are real people using the app, but by far the most are fake or at minimum, looking for some kind of compensation. I spend only the money for the basic credits and read/judge profiles very carefully before reaching out. I have not spent any additional money beyond the basic communication credits. A few conversations seemed legitimate and we seemed to be headed for a first date, but all have proven fruitless to an in-person meeting. Call me stupid if you want, but when given discounts by AM to purchase credits, the entertainment value has kept me as an occasional user despite the drought.

Every interaction with your users are criminal catfish looking to rip people off.
I'm done with this trash site

Wow. Where to begin.

- They offered a free subscription trial via the Apple Store, as long as cancelled before the billing date
- they then flashed a thing at the exact same time which I, like many users, instinctively think is an approval for the subscription - but no, it is a flash of $300 approval. I double clicked approve on phone as I thought it was just an approval of what I did. (Same minute!)

- they then don’t let you cancel or refund, they send you in an endless loop by email saying you need to continually prove who you are and then they offer you “credits” to save you the inconvenience of going to Apple!

- apple then reject the refund request

- I paid by PayPal now they’ve initially rejected the request for a refund and it’s at appeal.

I have never seen a more blatant case of fraudulent misrepresentation and inducement than this.

If I don’t get a refund I will file a police report for the same. This is illegal and I cannot believe that apple and PayPal seem to be thinking that this is a legitimate business practice.

Worthless and Overpriced
Ashley Madison costs too much. It tricks the user into sending "Priority" messages at almost twice the credits. It is hard to find someone because there are not enough people. Women don't sign up, even though it is free of charge.

I would give this site zero stars if I could. I am not even sure the women on the site are real and not something generated by the sites owners. It's one thing to make money, but you would probably have to spend several hundreds of dollars a month as a man to contact the women with no assurances they are real. Save your money

Would give a zero if I could ..1st day found 2 different lrofiles in different citys yet got same response from both called them on it no response..then after almost 80 bucks had exact same question asked twice after answering it already.. I call this theft by deception from this company ..will never trust this site again..

Kate Collins does not know what she is talking about because the site does have a lot of fake profiles with fake address and in the years I've been on this site since 2015 in and off I've only met two women in person the others had fake profiles and one I talked to on the phone worked for a escort Service if there are very many there stuck on themselves or just on the site to play mind games and there customer service sucks no live agents to awnser your questions and concerns like two members that I read there review that there accounts were suspended for no wrong doing on the site well I had a problem with emailing them to get help purchasing a package and it said my email was inactive and invalid and was not it was aactive and I got it cleared up with the BBB about three months ago

Total fraud , mostly bot or AI with automated responses , perfect ground also for a bunch of fake profiles hoping to run a financial scam on you , do not waste your time or money , look for better real options like stitch if you are over 50 , those are double checked real people that meet on regular bases , just using whatever credits I have left never to sign up again .

Same trash as Seeking, What's your price, etc. I made a profile with no picture and called myself an unemployed, penniless idiot. Within 30 minutes I was "favorited" by 59 profiles, mostly New York, but all over, including Seattle and LA. I live outside Philadelphia PA. I received several "collect messages". Which means buy credits to have a conversation with a bot. How are sites like this legal? It's theft by deception at best, racketeering if you wanted to make a case for it.

It’s like they have something against real women who use it, I was literally just on the site then boom I get booted I tried to log back in but it said my account was suspended, I tried making another account they suspended that too so I’m like wtf, and customer service is shit I emailed them still no response so then I called them I told them the issue then they proceed to tell me that my account was suspended due to “violating their terms” I asked what did I do because I didn’t do anything for my account to be suspended then they tell me “ we can’t disclose why your account is suspended” that made no f-ing sense how do u suspend someone’s account but can’t tell them why or what they did. At that point I stopped trying I don’t recommend this site to anyone