Holymama took our €4k and gave us nothing when my exhausted wife needed their support the most post birth
In brief –
• Holymama (HM) preaches about empowering mothers - we had the complete opposite experience
• HM changes their online Ts&Cs when the going gets tough and hides behind the latest version – they’re not worth the website they’re written on
• Having paid 100% upfront for our retreat, we received a worthless 2 year credit note for 70% of the value when HM cancelled our Mother&Baby Bali retreat. This credit expired before they rescheduled the event over 4 years later
• HM are not ATOL protected and consumer protections in their HQ country of Spain are weak. Our pre-payment was not held in escrow.
• HM posts on social media that “making money isn’t hard”, yet refused to refund what they owed us, despite remaining a going concern
• Having independently visited the Bali hotel where our retreat was scheduled, it did not appear suitable for young children with steep stairs, open balconies and an open pool.
The background –
Following the challenging birth of our first child, my wife was desperate for some respite and stumbled across the HM ‘Mother&Baby’ Bali retreat. Regrettably, we fell for the glossy marketing and paid €4k upfront, 6 months in advance of the retreat in March 2020. There were some early warning signs with the company providing erroneous dates and struggling to explain which room we had actually booked.
Clearly we do not blame HM for scrambling to deal with the unprecedented impact of COVID-19, which led them to abandon our retreat last minute, as travel shut down. However their response was unprofessional – HM refused to acknowledge that they had cancelled the retreat and encouraged us to use our travel insurance to claim compensation. HM changed their Terms & Conditions mid-Pandemic to include “force majeure”, “cancellation of flights” and “global epidemics”. They then told participants that they would receive a credit note, less a fictional “30% deposit” to cover HM’s losses. We had separately booked additional nights at the same hotel, which gracefully honoured our credit for 3.5 years until we had the opportunity to use it, so we can only assume that HM lost nothing on their accommodation reservation.
After an extended period of privately trying to reason with HM, it was becoming clear that they would not willingly refund the money they owed us. We attempted to re-charge the payment via our credit card and HM’s payment facilitator Stripe, but these companies would only review the now updated online Ts&Cs provided by HM. HM also made false claims such as “the customer tried to cancel” and misled them on dates to avoid a fair resolution.
With only a partial credit note, we repeatedly asked when the replacement retreat would take place, but nothing was scheduled in 2021, 2022 or 2023. Even then we would have to pay more to cover the full cost of a retreat due to the arbitrary 30% haircut on our original payment.
HM is not ATOL protected. Consumer protections in their home country of Spain are weak making legal challenges unpredictable and potentially costly. HM may feel vindicated that consumers have no recourse when they fail to deliver, but we believe that this just shows their true colours. Aside from essentially stealing a material amount of money from us, they have caused significant emotional distress for my wife when she was at her lowest point post birth. This directly contrasts with their (seemingly disingenuous) online marketing.
We have chosen not to share our (ongoing) experience for over 4 years, with the positive hope that they would ‘do the right thing’, but reading other reviews, this looks naïve. We now hope that by sharing this black & white account, others will not suffer the experience we have had.
March 31, 2024
Unprompted review