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Everyone participating was there to meet a get to know one another, no time wasters! Each person was interesting and able to connect. The evening went fast, and I wanted more time with each candidate,... See more
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All of the men were engaging in conversation and easy to talk to. The only downside was they overbooked the girls and so we had to sit alone for a few rounds and double up at tables which made getting... See more
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I've done multiple events in Phoenix. They're always hosted at cute little venues, and the organizers are always super friendly. The quality of daters is a mixed bag, but that's to be expected given t... See more
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Founded in 2007, MyCheekyDate hosts sophisticated, host-led speed dating events in 50+ cities worldwide. Recognized as an Eventbrite Top Organizer, our events use a proprietary, algorithmic, smartphone-based Smart-Card matching system. Every guest is supported by The Cheeky Guarantee for cancellations, reschedules, and flexible guest schedule changes. MyCheekyDate has hosted more than 26,000 events across 50+ cities over the past decade and has been featured in outlets including The New York Times and The New Yorker. Our Smart-Card allows guests to privately select who they would like to see again, receive mutual-interest results, and participate in a broader matching ecosystem. Using machine-learning supported interest signals, the Smart-Card helps identify real-world attraction patterns from live events that may inform future speed dating events, invite-only experiences, members-only gatherings, and Curated Introductions. The Cheeky Guarantee keeps guest options clear: if MyCheekyDate cancels or reschedules an event, guests may request a refund. If a guest’s own plans change, their ticket remains valid as flexible credit for any future MyCheekyDate event, at any time, with any amount of notice.
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Constant Cancellation
I bought a ticket at the beginning of December and I’ve been rescheduled
four times, and each time they send an apology email the day of and ask me to pick a new date. I’ve been single for a couple of years, my nerves are shot getting my hopes up and dashed repeatedly. They refuse to refund me my money. Don’t waste your money and feelings on this junk!
January 17, 2026
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Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Stephanie,
Thank you for sharing your experience in Calgary. We understand how frustrating repeated schedule changes can feel, especially when you’re emotionally invested.
For clarity, when an event is removed from our schedule, notifications are sent in advance, and the event is taken down as soon as rescheduling begins so guests aren’t preparing for a date that won’t proceed. Our records show multiple reschedules in this case, including one requested by you due to travel, which we were happy to accommodate — as we aim to be understanding when life happens.
Across 25,000+ verified Eventbrite events hosted over many years, we’ve consistently worked to support our guests. Tickets remain valid and non-expiring, with payment processing handled by Eventbrite, our ticketing partner and merchant of record. Our team is always happy to assist guests in navigating their options. We also had guest services reach out for any additional help we can offer with Eventbrite.
We’re sorry this experience felt discouraging and appreciate you taking the time to share your feedback.
Cheers,
The MyCheekyDate Team
They cancel events without refunding
They abruptly cancel the event without option to refund. A customer service rep CALLS me at 6pm on a FRIDAY to try to intimidate me from not leaving reviews.
Edit: see below on how unhinged their customer service reps are. The event was apparently cancelled because people dropped out and it's clear why. Avoid.
January 13, 2026
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Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Aileen Tie,
We’re sorry you’re upset in Dallas. However, comments of a sexually offensive nature directed at our team during the phone call were not appropriate.
Under our Cheeky Promise, guests are always allowed to reschedule without penalty, and in some cases, multiple reschedule requests can require an event to be moved, as happened here. We host 4–6 events each month in Dallas, so there is typically another event just days away.
Our guest services team reached out to help and offered assistance connecting with Eventbrite, the ticket provider, so you could seek support regarding your purchase. We’re always happy to assist Eventbrite customers in reaching Eventbrite directly.
Cheers,
The MyCheekyDate Team
I like this company
I like this company. The venues are a good mix of a relaxed atmosphere with more class than a club or bar scene. The number of people and time commitment is digestible and I like that the men rotate around the women. I’ve never had any issues communicating with them via email. Highly recommend, super fun!
January 10, 2026
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Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Ashley,
Thank you so much for this thoughtful review! We’re really glad you enjoyed the venues, the relaxed-yet-classy atmosphere, and the structure of the event — that balance is exactly what we aim for. We also appreciate the kind words about communication and are so happy you had a fun experience. Hope to see you again soon!
Cheers,
The MyCheekyDate Team 💕
Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Basel,
Thank you so much! We love hearing that — bringing together kind, professional, lovely people is exactly what My Cheeky Date is all about. Hope to see you again soon!
Cheers,
The MyCheekyDate Team 💕
Phoenix Events
I've done multiple events in Phoenix. They're always hosted at cute little venues, and the organizers are always super friendly. The quality of daters is a mixed bag, but that's to be expected given the nature of the service. My only criticism is the fact that age ranges are sometimes ignored. Repeatedly. The range I fall into is usually 25-38, or something similar, and someone will sit down across from you and casually tell you they're in their 40s or 50s, which can make for an awkward few minutes. Maybe add an option for a wide age range?
February 14, 2025
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Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Amanda,
Thank you so much for sharing this — and for coming out to multiple Phoenix events. We’re really glad you’ve enjoyed the venues and our hosts; that means a lot to us.
You’re absolutely right that chemistry (and people!) can be a mixed bag — that’s part of meeting humans IRL — but we hear you clearly on the age range feedback. Our age ranges are intentionally set to create comfort and alignment, and when someone knowingly registers outside of a listed range, it’s something we take seriously.
That said, real life can be a little messy, and occasionally guests misrepresent their age or misunderstand the range they’ve signed up for. We actively remind attendees of age guidelines, and your note is a helpful nudge for us to continue tightening that messaging.
We also love your suggestion about offering a wider age-range option — that’s something we already do in some cities and are continuing to expand, as it gives guests more choice and avoids those awkward “well… this is unexpected” moments.
Thanks again for the thoughtful feedback and for being part of the Phoenix community. We hope to see you back at another event soon — hopefully with a few more perfectly aligned matches across the table. 😊
Cheers,
The MyCheekyDate Team 💕
It was an outstanding experience I have…
It was an outstanding experience I have ever had during my first time in Speeddating events. For next time, I just need to know or familiarise how I can contact the lady whom I matched with. Because I did not know the precise procedure right after attending the event. If I will attend the event for second time, I just need further instructions how to connect and contact my ideal matches. Thanks very much for this opportunity.
December 6, 2025
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Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Archie,
Thank you so much for the kind words — we’re delighted to hear your first speed dating experience with us was such a standout! 💫
To stay connected, you can always check your MyCheekyDate Smart-Card — your digital scorecard (and flirting companion 😉). During the event, guests log in on mobile or desktop (no app needed) to view attendees and mark who they’d like to see again. You have until midnight to submit your final selections, and once that window closes, any mutual matches appear right in your Smart-Card with next steps for connecting.
We’re always happy to help if anything feels unclear, and we’d love to welcome you back for another event soon.
We can't wait to see you again.
Cheers,
The MyCheekyDate Team 💕
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Event cancelled twice — refund refused
Event was cancelled twice. When I requested a refund, the organizer refused to process it and repeatedly redirected me elsewhere instead of resolving the issue. I was spoken to in a dismissive, patronizing way and never received a refund. Poor customer service and an unnecessarily frustrating experience.
December 22, 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Anon,
Happy holidays! ✨ Thanks so much for sharing your feedback.
At MyCheekyDate, our Cheeky Promise means we always take an understanding, human-first approach. There are plenty of reasons daters may need to reschedule — especially around the holidays — and we aim to handle those moments with flexibility and care. Your ticket remained valid for any upcoming Vancouver date (with lots more always on the calendar — January is a busy one for daters!).
As for assistance with your purchase, Eventbrite is our ticketing partner, and we’re always happy to help point guests in the right direction. After 25,000+ events together, we can confidently say their team is friendly and efficient.
We’re sorry if any communication ever felt off — that’s not the Cheeky way. If you’d like help with Eventbrite or feel like giving us another go, our Guest Services team is here.
Hope to chat soon!
Cheers,
The MyCheekyDate Team 💕
Scam program don't use
I signed up and it's been months without a single date. The 'elaborate' matchmaking process can fit onto one page of paper. They're refusing to refund my money due to some kind of a clause in the fine print saying that they can take as long as they want.
EDIT: After posting this the company reached out to me to tell me too bad. There's plenty of other dating companies out there, don't waste your time or money with this one.
EDIT 2: Just to reply to their jargon below. I signed up with several matchmaking services, and attended at least 3 of their speeddating events this year. I wasn't even complaining about their speedating, but since they wanted to bring it up... They keep claiming only 1 time to me, as if it's worth me digging out the receipts over this. The speeddating events ranged from okay to poorly mismanaged, their blind dating service is unfortunately no better. The other matchmaking companies all had multiple dates in the time it's taken this company to find zero. It really shouldn't be a challenge to find a date for a vicefree in shape guy making 6 figures that's vacationed on 2 different continents this year, but somehow only this one company struggled. Their screening questions are more shallow than most dating apps. It's A/S/L, what's your job, height, what are your likes and dislikes. I'm pleased to say that I'm in a happy place right now thanks to the other matchmaking services. It's a shame that I can't get a refund for this money pit, all I can do is warn others away. Keep trying and you can find someone too... just don't look here.
September 25, 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi William (Dave),
Thank you for sharing your thoughts — we’re sorry to hear you feel disappointed. You joined our blind-date matchmaking & events program two months ago, and we do see you attended an event just before joining and received a match. Since enrolling, it appears you haven’t attended further events, and event participation is a core part of the program that drives new introductions. If someone isn’t attending or building new connections, other daters can be cautious — they’re looking for matches who are engaged, social, and excited to meet people.
It also sounds like there may be some confusion about the service purchased. Our program isn’t just forms — it’s a curated blind-date experience where we arrange a lovely night out with someone aligned to your interests, preferences, and vibe.
This season can run slower, as daters’ schedules get busy from before Halloween through New Year, but we’d love to review preferences or guide you to upcoming events to get things moving. We’re here anytime you wish to reach out.
Cheers,
The MyCheekyDate Team 💕
I enjoyed my experience at the events I…
I enjoyed my experience at the events I have attended. People are friendly and quite pretty too.
October 17, 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Eric,
We love hearing this — friendly faces, good energy, and yes… a rather attractive crowd doesn’t hurt 😉
Thanks for joining us and sharing your experience. We hope to welcome you back for another lovely evening soon!
Cheers,
The MyCheekyDate Team 💕
This is basically a scam
This is basically a scam. Booked 2 events with them, never been able to attend one because they keep canceling. For 3 times in a row a re booked and received an email few hours before the event saying that it was cancelled. Booked the first event in September, in December I still couldn't attend because they keep canceling on me. Last time was almost funny: sent an email to them to confirm that I was included in the event, they confirmed, got back to me 2h later saying that they were cancelling. And of course no refund. This is a scam.
December 10, 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Riccardo,
we’re so sorry you’ve missed our recent events in Dublin. We know that’s frustrating.
Dublin has had a bit of a surge in guest reschedule requests as the year winds down, and we do try to be understanding when daters need to move their booking for personal or work reasons. Occasionally this leads to an event being shifted to ensure the right balance and a quality experience for everyone.
From our side, your ticket never expires, and you’re always welcome to join any future date that suits you.
You also have the option of contacting your ticket provider, Eventbrite, for refund assistance. As the merchant of record, they’re the only party with access to your payment details and are always the best resource for refund-related requests. We’ve partnered with Eventbrite for over 9 years and across 25,000+ events, and their support team is consistently helpful.
If you’d like help getting into an upcoming confirmed event or assistance with reaching out to Eventbrite - just let us know at info@mycheekydate.com. We're here 24/7.
Everyone was really kind
Everyone was really kind. Met a lot of great people. Highly recommend.
December 3, 2025
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Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Lee,
Thank you so much for sharing this! We’re thrilled to hear you felt welcomed and met some wonderful people — that’s exactly the kind of atmosphere we work hard to create. 💛
We’d love to host you again anytime. Here’s to more great conversations and even better connections ahead!
Cheers,
The MyCheekyDate Team 💕
Excellent Business
My experiences with MyCheekyDate have been consistently positive! While I have not yet met my long-term partner, I always enjoy meeting many new women in a row in one evening. The scoring system being done online with results that night is extremely dater-friendly.
October 4, 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Jon,
Thank you so much for sharing this — we really appreciate it!
We’re thrilled to hear you’ve had consistently positive experiences with us. Meeting lots of new people in one evening is exactly the kind of low-key, high-connection environment we aim to create.
And we’re especially glad you’re enjoying the Smart-Card digital scorecard — getting your results that same night is something daters tell us they love, so it’s wonderful to hear it’s been helpful for you too.
We hope one of these lovely evenings brings you that long-term connection you’re looking for. 💛
Cheers,
The MyCheekyDate Team 💕
Takes your money and never delivers service
I signed up for a paid July 17th event in Chicago, only for it to get postponed FIVE! times, the last of which was scheduled for September 27th. Per Eventbrite’s policies, I then asked for a refund since the service I paid for wasn’t ever delivered within a 45-day period, and a refund was promised within another 15 business days, but I STILL never received one. They need better customer service and might benefit from not allowing reschedules to go along with their “no refund” policy. If someone needs to reschedule, have that customer miss out on potential matches and their money, not the customer who always intended to go. At the very least, the participants could possibly make 1 or 2 new friends, even if it’s awkward at first and not exactly what they paid for. That would still be better than nothing at all.
July 17, 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Jeremy,
We’re truly sorry to hear of your disappointment and appreciate the opportunity to clarify.
On our end, we do show you’ve been on the receiving end of reschedule requests — but we’ve also extended quite a number of new event invitations since your registration. We have so many events a month in Chicago - with the latest just 3 days ago at Time Out. We're sorry you've been missing them.
Enforcing a strict “no reschedule” policy would be sure to upset a great many daters. We’ve seen far more guests needing to reschedule, especially in recent months, than we’ve seen guests unhappy about postponed events. It’s a difficult balance, and sometimes there simply isn’t a solution that makes everyone happy.
We do our best to manage these situations with kindness and flexibility — understanding that life happens — while working diligently to personally invite anyone affected to new, well-balanced events that align with their schedule.
Eventbrite, our partner for over 25,000+ events, is always available to assist with any purchase or ticket-related requests via their online chat or through email.
If you fancy reaching out directly to us, we would love the opportunity to see if we can't get kismet and cupid to connect for you.
Cheers,
The MyCheekyDate Team 💕
They had a last-minute cancellation…
They had a last-minute cancellation with a couple of hours' notice, which was unprofessional. When this happens, an event host should offer a refund. Unfortunately, that's not the case, and I wasted $40 on an event since the alternative dates don't work with my schedule. I've seen other bad reviews of their events, and unfortunately, this seems like a trend for them. Definitely don't recommend any of their events based on this experience.
October 21, 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi MacKenzie,
We’re truly sorry for the disappointment — and completely understand how frustrating it can be when plans change unexpectedly.
From time to time, an event may be rescheduled to ensure a balanced guest list or due to a venue adjustment. We do also always allow guests to reschedule — life happens! Whether it’s travel, illness, or simply a scheduling clash, we can’t imagine telling a dater they can’t move to another event. We give as much notice as we get - which in your case was the evening before.
While refunds for postponed events are handled directly by Eventbrite (our official ticketing partner), we’re always happy to help you find another date that fits.
Or if you prefer, you can reach out to Eventbrite for any questions or requests with your purchase.
Apologies again.
Cheers,
The MyCheekyDate Team 💕
My first cheeky date experience had a…
My first cheeky date experience had a good number of people showing up. Lots of connections. Slightly loud at that venue. Would recommend!
October 26, 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Brandon,
We’re thrilled to hear your first Cheeky Date was such a hit — that’s what we love to hear! 💕 A lively crowd and lots of connections make for a brilliant night. We’ll keep an eye on the volume for that venue — we never want chatter to drown out charm. Cheers to your next cheeky evening with us! 🍸
Cheers,
The MyCheekyDate Team 💕
It was great to be able to meet a few…
It was great to be able to meet a few potential quality people in mix, I think could benefit if allowed for a more opportunity to connect after
May 24, 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Dane,
We’re so glad you enjoyed meeting a few fab singles — that’s what it’s all about! 💛 We love that you’re looking for even more opportunity to connect after. Our team’s always exploring new ways to make post-event connections even easier (our Smart-Card matching system helps with just that!). Here’s to more great chats — and hopefully a lovely match or two next time!
Cheers,
The MyCheekyDate Team 💕
The host did a great job of making…
The host did a great job of making everyone feel welcome and made for an enjoyable experience!
February 11, 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Brett,
We’re so happy to hear that! Our hosts truly love creating a welcoming, easy-going atmosphere where everyone can relax and enjoy meeting new people. Thank you for sharing your kind words — we’ll be sure to pass them along to the team. Here’s to more great nights and cheeky connections ahead! 💕
Whenever you fancy attending another event - we hope you won't hesitate to reach out to us at info@mycheekydate.com or 866 We Speed.
Thanks again!
I have been to a few of these events
I have been to a few of these events. I prefer when they happen at a bar or restaurant with comfortable seats and good lighting. There are a few the frquently happen at a champagne bar/ lounge that has very dim lighting -- which is of course ideal for the venue in general, but not great from a speed dating perspective.
September 14, 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Lee,
Thank you so much for joining us for several of our events and for sharing your thoughtful feedback! We completely understand what you mean — while our lounge and champagne bar venues create that signature cheeky-chic atmosphere, a touch more lighting can certainly make mingling easier.
That said, our champagne lounges remain among our most popular venues — particularly with the ladies — as they’re elegant, relaxed, and some of the most sought-after date spots in the city. We do our best to balance that romantic ambiance with comfort and visibility so everyone enjoys the experience.
We truly appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts and look forward to welcoming you to another one of our lovely, well-lit venues soon.
Warmly,
The MyCheekyDate Team 💫
It’s a wonderful platform for speed…
It’s a wonderful platform for speed dating. I’ve done it several times and have had good experiences. Thanks MyCheekyDate!
January 4, 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Raymond,
We’re so happy to hear you’ve enjoyed your experiences with us — that’s exactly what we love to deliver! Thank you for the kind words and for being part of our lovely community of daters. Here’s to even more great evenings, new faces, and cheeky connections ahead! 💕
Warm regards,
The MyCheekyDate Team
Ditch Hinge, go speed dating
I've been going on speed dates with cheeky date for a while, and it's always a nice experience. Nice venues, interesting people and mostly well organized. A great way to make a good connection.
October 11, 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from MyCheekyDate
Hi Marco,
We absolutely love hearing that! Thank you for being one of our lovely regulars — it means the world. We pride ourselves on creating genuine, in-person connections in charming venues with kind daters who are truly there for the right reasons. Here’s to many more evenings of cheeky conversation and real connection! 💕
Warm regards,
The MyCheekyDate Team
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