Three Day Rule Matchmaking Reviews 

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TrustScore 4.5 out of 5

4.4

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Considering 78 reviews, reviewers overwhelmingly had a great experience with this company. Customers consistently praise the staff for their thoughtful, intentional, and human approach, making the process feel personal. Many highlight the matchmakers' ability to listen carefully, understand preferences, and provide invaluable guidance and support. People appreciate the professional, responsive, and communicative nature of the team, often describing their matchmakers as exceptional and dedicated to finding the right fit. However, some customers noted concerns about unsuitable matches and a lack of personalization, with a few reporting poor communication, suggesting a perceived lack of effort.

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Service

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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

I worked with Three Day Rule twice, and I’m so grateful I did. The first round didn’t lead me to my person, but it did help me learn a lot about myself, what I truly wanted, and how I showed up in d... See more

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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

I did Three Day Rule back in 2017, and it was very useful! I was in my late 30s, had gotten through a divorce a few years earlier, and I just wasn't having success on the apps. I am busy between wor... See more

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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

I can't recommend this dating coach highly enough: Anastacia is a gem! She is deeply caring , thoughtful and genuinely invested in my growth and happiness. Her guidance is always practical and groun... See more

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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Three Day Rule truly stands apart in the matchmaking world. What made the experience special was how deeply they focused on me—my values, my personality, and my long-term relationship goals—rather tha... See more

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  1. Dating Service

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Three Day Rule is a personalized and modern matchmaking service for high-intent singles seeking meaningful connections. Their unique "Three Day Rule" approach to successful dating guides singles through an intentional dating journey before, during and after a date. With a team of experienced Matchmakers and a proven track record, they focus on relationship wellness and long-term compatibility, helping clients build authentic, lasting connections. At Three Day Rule, dating is more than just meeting someone—it’s about building a connection that lasts. Let us help you take the right steps toward finding a healthy relationship.


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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

I found love!

Rebecca at TDR really listened to me - what I was searching for and who might be a great fit. I went on several dates but then discovered the love of my life. He was someone that Rebecca had to give me a slight push towards because I was not sure we were compatible. She knew me better than I knew myself in this case. I am forever grateful for her insight!

July 19, 2025
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Rated 4 out of 5 stars

Fantastic matchmaker, candidate pool not as great

Luba, my matchmaker, is an exceptional partner in my quest for a potential mate. Her exceptional communication and listening skills enable her to attentively understand my preferences. So far, she has found individuals who, at least “on paper,” align very well with my criteria.

Unfortunately, I can’t speak as highly about the potential matches who haven’t been as thoughtful, considerate, or communicative. However, I understand that this isn’t a shortcoming of Luba’s. I completely understand why she chose the matches I was assigned.

April 30, 2026
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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

I loved working with Three Day Rule

I loved working with Three Day Rule! The matchmakers (Stacey and Rebecca) were both easy to work with and I can't thank them enough! I met my soulmate and am the happiest I've ever been!

April 30, 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 5 out of 5 stars

my (positive!) experience

I had a great experience working with Rebecca. She took the time to get to know me and while of course this is a profession, she cared about trying to introduce me to interesting matches that could be a great fit. After the introduction it's really up to how you and other person connect. I got what I was hoping for out of this process that I was struggling to with online dating (people who are serious about a relationship and interested in meeting in person vs. maintaining 20 conversations in parallel). I would highly recommend Rebecca specifically and matchmaking generally to someone on the fence about this approach to meeting your person!

May 21, 2025
Rated 5 out of 5 stars

My matchmaker is Rebecca

My matchmaker is Rebecca. She is the best! From the start, she has always understood who I am looking for and my matches are ones she has chosen for their appropriateness to my interests. Her support and genuine kindness are beyond any I could have imagined. It was nice to also have a dating coach included in my membership. I have never felt like a client but rather like a friend in working with this matching service.

April 29, 2026
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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Rebecca

I worked with Rebecca and she is approachable and really care about who i m and what i need. i never felt like just another profile in a system which made the whole experience much more meaningful and enjoyable.

April 28, 2026
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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Rebecca T of 3 Day Rule is the best!

I had the pleasure of working with Rebecca Tassoni at Three Day Rule, and I can’t say enough great things about the experience. She truly took the time to understand what I was looking for in a partner, while also gently encouraging me to stay open to possibilities I may not have considered.

Rebecca is kind, thoughtful, and refreshingly honest in her approach. If you’re considering a matchmaking service, I highly recommend working with her. She brings both insight and heart to what she does—and it shows.

Thank you, Rebecca!

April 28, 2026
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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

I had a really positive experience…

I had a really positive experience working with Mia at Three Day Rule. From the start, she took the time to truly understand what I was looking for—not just on paper, but in terms of personality, values, and lifestyle. It never felt rushed or transactional; she was thoughtful, attentive, and genuinely invested in helping me find the right match.

April 15, 2026
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Reply from Three Day Rule Matchmaking

Thank you so much for your kind words! We’re thrilled to hear you had such a positive experience with Mia, she truly cares about getting to know each client and finding the right match.

Wishing you all the best on your journey! ❤️
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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

My experience with Three Day Rule was…

My experience with Three Day Rule was excellent. Even if I hadn't found my husband through them, I would still give the company and matchmaker, Melissa Rogers, 5 stars. Everyone I worked with at 3DR was deeply kind, respectful and warm. Admitting you need help finding love can be an incredibly vulnerable moment, but they made me feel comfortable and safe throughout the entire process. Melissa, in particular, really brought warmth and her own vulnerabilities to every interaction. And I got a husband and baby out of it! Can't complain!

April 30, 2025
Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Anastacia has been a wonderful asset to…

Anastacia has been a wonderful asset to me in this process. She is attentive, compassionate, empathetic, kind, and most of all, helpful. I’m lucky to have her in my corner. She provides practical and timely advice, and her experience in all aspects of matchmaking makes her invaluable to her clients, especially clients like me who have anxiety. I highly recommend her as a coach and as an advocate.

April 23, 2026
Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Literally met

Literally met
my husband through TDR and the exceptional matchmaker Melissa!!! So grateful and thankful for this beautiful company 💛

April 23, 2026
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Reply from Three Day Rule Matchmaking

This is what we love to hear, congratulations!! We’re so thrilled you met your husband through Three Day Rule Matchmaking 💛 Melissa will be overjoyed to hear this! Thank you for sharing and for trusting us with such an important part of your journey.

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Great Experience!

My membership time with Three Day Rule was amazing. From the initial talk with membership, to the dating coach, photography session and of course my matchmaker, Jackie, I couldn't have asked for a more positive experience.

April 21, 2026
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Reply from Three Day Rule Matchmaking

Thank you so much for your kind words! We’re thrilled to hear you had such a positive experience from start to finish—from membership to coaching, photography, and working with Jackie. We’ll be sure to pass this along to her! Thank you for trusting Three Day Rule Matchmaking ❤️

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Great Service and caring Matchmakers

Great Service and caring Matchmakers! Very communicative and willing to work with you to meet your needs. My matchmaker, Deni, was awesome and went the extra mile.

April 20, 2026
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Reply from Three Day Rule Matchmaking

Thank you so much for your kind words! We’re glad you felt supported and well communicated with throughout the process. Deni will be so happy to hear this—she truly goes above and beyond. Thanks again for trusting Three Day Rule Matchmaking ❤️

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Working with Luba has been amazing

Working with Luba has been amazing. Great communication and feedback has been on point. 3DR has exceeding all expectations. I’d recommend 3DR to anyone

April 17, 2026
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Reply from Three Day Rule Matchmaking

Thank you so much for your kind words! We’re thrilled to hear that your experience with Luba has been so positive. Her communication and thoughtful feedback are such an important part of what we strive to provide.

We truly appreciate your recommendation and are so glad Three Day Rule Matchmaking has exceeded your expectations ❤️

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Three Day Rule has been the most professional amazing company from day one.

Three Day Rule is an outstandng company from the very beginning. I was so blessed to have Kelly as my matchmaker. From day one we hit it off and it was so easy to talk to her about everything. My concerns, my desires, and my boundaries. She has respected my choices and listened to all my needs. What a wonderful person she is and I cannot think of a better matchmaker. We are still in touch even though she matched me with a Love I NEVER thought existed. I know on a regular basis we catch up and I share the wonderful experiences she has led me to. She will help me talk through any concerns I may have. Kelly is professional and she is so kind and knows this profession very well. She was made for this. Thank you Kelly and thank you Three Day Rule as I love working with you and your company.

April 19, 2026
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Reply from Three Day Rule Matchmaking

Thank you so much for your kind words, we’re so grateful you shared your experience!

We’re thrilled to hear how impactful Kelly has been and that she helped you find a love you never thought possible. It means so much that your connection with her continues beyond the match.

Thank you for being part of Three Day Rule Matchmaking ❤️

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Couldn't be more Grateful for Callie & Three Day Rule

When I first met Callie, I was months removed from the disappointing end of yet another relationship. I was anxious to move on but reluctant to enter a world of dating apps and awkward setups. Callie and Three Day Rule gave me the jump-start that I needed. From the very beginning, Callie took such great care of me. Her warmth & smile set my nerves at ease. She invested time in getting to know me & my dating history and helped me identify the characteristics of my ideal partner. She brought genuine energy and excitement to every conversation, worked to understand my feedback on each match, and ultimately led me to meet someone truly special. What I’ve found with my match is so much beyond any relationship I’ve ever had. I cannot wait to start our life together, and I could not be more thankful for Callie, her partnership in this process, and the friendship that we developed along the way.

April 19, 2026
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Reply from Three Day Rule Matchmaking

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. We’re honored to have been part of your journey. Callie’s care, insight, and dedication truly make a difference, and we’re so happy she helped guide you to such a meaningful connection.

Wishing you all the best as you start this exciting new chapter together, and thank you for being part of Three Day Rule Matchmaking ❤️

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