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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

None of the people you see are real, just website employees and bots. They probe you with people of various nationalities, body styles and various distances from you. They are just after the $$$. A... See more

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Every time I ask specific questions about someone here they never answer they always beat around the bush with some weird generic question or comment it’s a total rip off I’m embarrassed I ever spent... See more

Rated 2 out of 5 stars

Enjoyed it for a few minutes. It’s obvious the people you’re chatting with are either AI bots or people working in some office in Cyprus. Every member is online 100% of the time? Every woman just goes... See more

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

What another complete con . One woman’s profile claimed to be from Burton on Trent 10 messages later she admitted she was in America. This site is taking money by deception which is actually a crimina... See more

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  1. Dating Service
  2. Adult Dating Service

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On dateYou ❤ you’ll find the nicest singles in your area. ✅ Simply download the app for free ✅ or use the web app!


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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I’m embarrassed to say that I fell for…

I’m embarrassed to say that I fell for a scam/girl on this site. She kept me chatting for months. I spent over $1000. She always had excuses why she couldn’t meet me. She never had details about the city she lived in. She just kept building my trust by expressing deep concern for my health and safety. Always asking if I ate or slept well, am I being careful at work. She asked me to be her partner and trust her, and even marriage.. but this was all to build my trust because then, it happened. She asked me if I could send her money so we could meet. Yeah, you know the rest. They try to get money out of you any way possible. Look up date you scam and you can read all day. These girls get paid by the message. Sometimes you’re not even talking to the same person. Why else would they be awake 24/7 and able to answer your message in the blink of an eye?
Don’t do it!

December 22, 2020
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Site is a complete scam

Site is a complete scam. Not 1 women is real. Every supposed lady on site has 2 or 4 numbers after their name. They answer within 30 seconds. Woman chase you with relentless chats. Not the smartest owners yet I'm sure they get between $ 50 - 200 before a man figures it out. Just a churn and burn business! It's truly disgusting they steal women's photos.

December 14, 2020
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

dateyou web site is a bot activated…

dateyou web site is a bot activated site. if you notice that everyone who is interested in you is on line at the same time. bots waiting for input to respond. they use past member pictures like a white woman texting in spanish to a white man. (What human being does that) people are smarter than that. they ask for a reason you are deleting your profile, yet give a bogus address to respond to. its entertainment at its worst when one purchases coin to chat with a bot. there are several websites that do this. one site for adults where you respond with tickets you buy and the bot sends a picture of the person you think your talking to with one less item of clothing for each response. then it starts all over with same responses and pics. LOL entertainment only people. go grocery shopping or window shopping at target. great place to meet people even if your wearing a mask.

December 13, 2020
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

100% Fraud

100% Fraud! They use a 5-part site dictated response pattern designed to 1) entice 2) Hook 3) Lure then IF you question 4) Indignation ("I'm hurt that you think I'm a bot". etc 5) "can we still go on?". All are automated & ridiculously predictable. IF a pic is on the "Cattle List" (vs "catalyst" that is the "Membership"page)= they are definitely fake - usually from some other porn site! (I suspect they use pics of both men & women that naively send their own pics in & later ..after they quit site - add their own "verbiage" unbeknownst to the victim. - I actually knew a lady pictured there that had joined in a sincere effort to meet someone. After seeing it was a scam - she left the site..only to find her pic was being used still!). Do NOT waste your time or certainly- money! I suspect also that ANYONE who says they "met" someone..is on the site payroll. If one contacts the "Support"....NEVER AN answer = too busy counting their scam money. Kudos to the Overweight slob sitting in a dark room eating leftover pizza & sipping a beer while answering all "chats" - I believe they have at least 3 shifts as one can read & sense the changeovers in the answers. Have this picture in mind - IF you get sucked -in!! TOTAL FAKE!

November 25, 2020
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Don't be a fool

Obviously a fake site to get you to keep buying coins. Got over 100 messages in 2 days, their aim is to get you to reply, meaning buying coins. I read somewhere they even tell you in their terms that members are professionals and the chat is for 'entertainment' purposes. You'll never meet them.,A rip off, should be illegal, these scum buckets are despicable. Just glad I was smart enough to spot them before spending any money.

November 22, 2020
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

These criminals need to be prosecuted…

These criminals need to be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law, and that's a fact. It is so obviously a scam site, good thing I only spent $5. It was more out of curiosity than anything. But if I find out they took more than $5 off my credit card whoever owns this domain is going to be big time trouble. I don't know why they don't get in trouble for this why is anybody not doing anything?

November 16, 2020
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

this is obviously a scam site

this is obviously a scam site, upon logging you are bombarded by girls asking " what are you doing right now", huge number of fake profiles, highly doubt there are any real people here...

November 13, 2020
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

THE BEST SCAM EVER.!!

Well, it's the same old story with this site. Duplicate profiles, fake automated messages, and in one circumstance I actually noticed that the messages were coming from a different time zone than mine...? No responses from anyone at corporate or their alleged customer service contact form. I reported several profiles that were in blatant violation of their own policies, but they are still there scamming money from innocent "victims". If you read into the guidelines it says very clearly that you cannot leave any kind of contact information such as phone numbers or advertising, so how could it possibly even be real? It's a shame that our society has turned to such ignorance and theft by playing off the emotions of someone seriously looking for love. I stopped at $200.00, but for me that's a lot of money. It's time the government steps in and shuts these phony criminal enterprises down for commiting economic crimes against the public, especially persons who are senior disabled individuals like myself. The website should say "F___you.com" instead, at least that way you would expect it.!! I'm mad as hell, and I want my money back.!!

November 12, 2020
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Total BS

Total BS! Doubtful if anyone on this app is actually real. $1 per message sent for nothing other than fake responses and unfulfilled promises. Save your money and don’t fall for the scam!

October 25, 2020
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I've never ever seen such a scam site

I've never ever seen such a scam site. Dateyou.com is a total bull sh***t. Immediately after I bought coins, I was bombarded by endless messages and it sounded like I'm the only guy in the site. I spent $130 just with in 2 hours of chat. Lately, I discovered that I was being fooled. So embarrassed.

October 20, 2020
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Every time I ask specific questions…

Every time I ask specific questions about someone here they never answer they always beat around the bush with some weird generic question or comment it’s a total rip off I’m embarrassed I ever spent one penny trying to find someone here they should be ripped down from the Internet it’s a scam 💯 % !!! DO NOT SUPPORT DATEYOU.COM !!!!!!
You are being played just like I was !!!!

October 20, 2020
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

None of the people you see are real

None of the people you see are real, just website employees and bots. They probe you with people of various nationalities, body styles and various distances from you. They are just after the $$$.

And don't think about making your profile state that you know what they are doing because they will delete your description. And, they own several websites with different names and the same format.

September 25, 2020
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Dateyou is a 100% total scam the…

Dateyou is a 100% total scam the pictured ladies work for the site. and hired .I.T. people actually do the messaging I spent 600.00 in 1 month like a total idiot. Guys you'll never ever meet the ladies or get a number you've got a better chance of winning the mega millions

July 27, 2020
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