Great service. Re-stock updates and regular discount codes. Fast delivery with tracking info. Well packaged, safe and discreet. Never had any issues with this business :) xo
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Found self and more through Lauren Ashley Gordon's recommendations for various items. Very impressed, easy website to navigate. User friendly. Swift packing and shipping. Descreet packaging. Love thei... See more
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Good vibrations but way to tight. Quality of materials is good, really smooth. Satifiyer products are really good it's ashame it's too tight. Maybe it's just because we've not used one before and it'... See more
It feels really good to be able to support a sex-positive business with values and principles that align with my own. So often sex shops and resources are curated and written through the male lens. I... See more
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Self & More is the UK's sex-positive sex toy store. We celebrate pleasure and aim to help you find the tools and the language needed to have even better sex with yourself and others. Discreet shipping and free UK delivery on orders over £35. We stock only quality, body-safe products and will happily provide a personalised toy recommendation for anyone - simply drop us an email to get the conversation started.
Contact info
Kemp House, 152 - 160 City Road, EC1V 2NX, London, United Kingdom
- info@selfandmore.com
- selfandmore.co.uk
Great service and products
Anything I have bought at Self & More has been processed and sent quickly. The quality of the product I bought is wonderful.
Poor customer service
I still haven't recieved my order. it's been over a week if not 2 since I ordered for next day delivery. Have requested a refund a number of times and keep getting told to sit tight and wait. Also not being able to speak to someone on the phone is infuriating.

Reply from Self & More
Nice package
Wonderful product. Exactly what I wanted and quickly and discreetly delivered. Wish there were more zips and compartments though.
What a great shop
What a great shop! Great products (including my latest purchase 😉)and always a fast delivery too!
Love the owner and her attitude. Responsibly and playfully encouraging us to have more pleasure! Highly recommend!
Always fantastic
Always fantastic. Great quality products. Cute packaging (inside) and discrete (outside). Xx
Super fast delivery
Super fast delivery, great price for product. Am very happy with it!
Self and more is the best!
Website is easy to use, delivery was fast and discreet and the product is amazing!
Will definitely buying from there again and would recommend.
Second purchase from Self & More
Second purchase from Self & More! Super quick and painless service. Love the product selection 🍆💦👍😍
Best thing I've ever been influenced to…
Best thing I've ever been influenced to buy!
Customer service was great, product is amazing was influenced to buy and have no regrets whatsoever!! If your thinking about it. Don't. Just do it you won't regret it!!
Great company
Great company. Trust their ethics and love all of the products we've bought from them.
Amazing products
Amazing products, great quality, swift delivery, lovely lovely people. What more can I say? Brilliant site. They've got you covered, any issues and they are super responsive. Lauren specifically is a legend.
Great service with a great product…
Great service with a great product delivered on everything
Great service!
Very pleased with the quality of products and speed of service as always. They arrived well protected in a nondescript box.
Fuss free
Fuss free, but I also contacted Self & More with some questions and they were very happy to answer. The pink paper in the package was a nice touch.
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