Great service. Re-stock updates and regular discount codes. Fast delivery with tracking info. Well packaged, safe and discreet. Never had any issues with this business :) xo
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Found self and more through Lauren Ashley Gordon's recommendations for various items. Very impressed, easy website to navigate. User friendly. Swift packing and shipping. Descreet packaging. Love thei... See more
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Good vibrations but way to tight. Quality of materials is good, really smooth. Satifiyer products are really good it's ashame it's too tight. Maybe it's just because we've not used one before and it'... See more
It feels really good to be able to support a sex-positive business with values and principles that align with my own. So often sex shops and resources are curated and written through the male lens. I... See more
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Self & More is the UK's sex-positive sex toy store. We celebrate pleasure and aim to help you find the tools and the language needed to have even better sex with yourself and others. Discreet shipping and free UK delivery on orders over £35. We stock only quality, body-safe products and will happily provide a personalised toy recommendation for anyone - simply drop us an email to get the conversation started.
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Kemp House, 152 - 160 City Road, EC1V 2NX, London, United Kingdom
- info@selfandmore.com
- selfandmore.co.uk
Swift discreet delivery
Swift discreet delivery. Items were packaged well and in perfect condition.
February 18, 2022
Good vibrations but way to tight
Good vibrations but way to tight. Quality of materials is good, really smooth. Satifiyer products are really good it's ashame it's too tight. Maybe it's just because we've not used one before and it's meant to be really tight but had to remove half way through as became uncomfortable.
Delivery was really quick and all came packaged very discreetly, It won't stop me ordering again, it's just obviously not the right toy for us.
February 15, 2022
Fabulous
Fabulous company to buy from. The product is also wonderful - very natural and gentle to apply but very effective. Will always have one in my drawer from now on.
February 7, 2022
Amazing thank you!
February 5, 2022
Great quality and super fast delivery 👌
February 1, 2022
Reply from Self & More
Thanks so much for this lovely feedback! Enjoy x
Package was delivered in a Jiffy bag
Package was delivered in a Jiffy bag. Obvious what was inside, no box at all. Not discreet at all.
February 1, 2022
Reply from Self & More
Hi Luke,
Huge apologies again for this. As discussed via Instagram this was an error made by our distribution warehouse which we have resolved with urgency. All our orders should go out in cardboard boxes. Unfortunately the item you ordered doesn't come packaged in a box so this is even more important, and I'm so sorry that we let you down on this occasion. Please be assured this is not our usual practice and it will not happen again.
Huge apologies once again. Kind regards,
Lauren @ Self & More
Service and delivery is always great!
January 27, 2022
Reply from Self & More
So glad to hear you're pleased Becky, thanks so much for your order!
5 stars
Came in a timely manner. Bag was ripped open, but the product was unaffected. I am satisfied with the product.
January 26, 2022
Reply from Self & More
Thanks so much for taking the time to leave us this review. We recently discovered a problem with our warehouse sending out items in bags instead of boxes and have now resolved this. So sorry your order was affected!
Hope you're enjoying your order,
Lauren @ Self & More
Excellent customer service and the…
Excellent customer service and the delivery was very fast!
January 15, 2022
Reply from Self & More
So great to hear, thanks for taking the time to leave us a review!
5/5 cannot recommend enough
Brilliant website. Fast delivery and easy ordering online. The blush wellness dilators are so amazing and I already know they are going to make my sex life so much better! There are so many unique products on the website, that I will definitely be ordering again. Would definitely recommend to anyone who wants to order sex toys from an amazingly positive and uplifting brand.
January 11, 2022
Reply from Self & More
Thanks so much for this glowing review Megan, it's so appreciated! Have a lovely day.
Lauren @ Self & More
Self and More has never disappointed…
Self and More has never disappointed me. Delivery is quick, the packaging is plain and discreet and the items are always packed nicely :)
January 10, 2022
Reply from Self & More
Great to hear Sophie! Thanks for your support x
Packaging was ripped
Love the products but the stuff I bought came wrapped in paper that had ripped, so you could see some of the things I bought - not very discreet!
January 2, 2022
Reply from Self & More
Hi Jess,
Thanks so much for your recent order. So sorry to hear that your tissue paper had been damaged in transit. Orders are discretely delivered in unmarked cardboard boxes, but once opened the products may be visible so best to not open until you're alone if you're concerned about privacy.
Please do let me know if I've misunderstood and it was the outer packaging that was damaged? Feel free to reach out to lauren@selfandmore.com to discuss further :)
Thanks,
Lauren @ Self & More
Thanks for the extra exciting O’s
Thanks for the extra exciting O’s
As always superb service from you at self and more. A forever customer right here!
January 2, 2022
Reply from Self & More
Thanks so much for your endless support Elin, it's so appreciated. Enjoy your purchase!
Such an informative site
Such an informative site, with a great range of products and all at very reasonable prices. I enjoyed reading the blog before having a browse and felt comfortable with what I was purchasing. Postage was super speedy and packaging descreet. Will be back and highly recommend.
December 21, 2021
Five stars
Ordering was easy, great range of products better priced than anywhere else. Fast, discreet shipping.
December 19, 2021
Excellent selection
Excellent selection, always speedy delivery and discreet packaging. I love self and more.
December 8, 2021
My favourite sex toy company
My favourite sex toy company.
I have bought from self and more twice now and I haven't been disappointed. Their toys are beautiful and high quality and have enhanced my sex life.
December 7, 2021
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