Great service. Re-stock updates and regular discount codes. Fast delivery with tracking info. Well packaged, safe and discreet. Never had any issues with this business :) xo
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Found self and more through Lauren Ashley Gordon's recommendations for various items. Very impressed, easy website to navigate. User friendly. Swift packing and shipping. Descreet packaging. Love thei... See more
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Good vibrations but way to tight. Quality of materials is good, really smooth. Satifiyer products are really good it's ashame it's too tight. Maybe it's just because we've not used one before and it'... See more
It feels really good to be able to support a sex-positive business with values and principles that align with my own. So often sex shops and resources are curated and written through the male lens. I... See more
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Self & More is the UK's sex-positive sex toy store. We celebrate pleasure and aim to help you find the tools and the language needed to have even better sex with yourself and others. Discreet shipping and free UK delivery on orders over £35. We stock only quality, body-safe products and will happily provide a personalised toy recommendation for anyone - simply drop us an email to get the conversation started.
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Kemp House, 152 - 160 City Road, EC1V 2NX, London, United Kingdom
- info@selfandmore.com
- selfandmore.co.uk
Honestly so helpful
Honestly so helpful, followed up on some questions I had about a product then came back to me. The best service ever.
July 6, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Alex, thanks so much for leaving us this amazing review. Really pleased we were able to help with your purchase, hope you're enjoying using it!
Give us a shout if there's anything else that we can help with.
Lauren @ Self & More
Had a great experience
Had a great experience, love their shop 🖤 super fast shipping and excellent prices.
July 3, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Sam!
So good to hear you had a great experience, that's what we aim for! Hope you enjoy your purchases.
Thanks for supporting S&M!
Lauren @ Self & More
I have ordered twice now from Self &…
I have ordered twice now from Self & More and the delivery time is SO FAST. Like, they’re giving Prime a run for their money! Excellent service, excellent products and I’m so excited by the range they have available. Just an excellent store.
June 30, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Lorna, this is so great to hear! Thanks so much for your purchase, and for taking the time to leave us this amazing review.
Have a good day!
Lauren @ Self & More
Reply from Self & More
Great to hear Devon, thanks so much for your order!
Lauren @ Self & More
Met my new boyfriend on Self and More
Met my new boyfriend on Self and More. Wasn't sure if he was the one when I ordered, because I'd never had one like that before... but he's amazing. He came so fast, but in a good way! And his package was like a sexy secret, you'd have never known he was in there! He's top quality, and I love him so much. Thanks S&M xXx
June 28, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Jenna we love this review so much! Wishing you and your new boyfriend a very happy future. Hope we get invited to the wedding!!
Lauren @ Self & More
Awsome service
Awsome service, the website is easy to navigate and as always super discreet packaging and fast delivery
June 25, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hey CC, thanks so much for taking the time to leave us this review. So pleased to hear your found our website easy to navigate! Enjoy your purchase.
Lauren @ Self & More
Love love LOVE Self & More.
June 25, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Grace, thanks so much for this lovely review! Really appreciate you supporting our small business.
Lauren @ Self & More
Self & More were really great when an…
Self & More were really great when an issue arose with my order, I can’t praise their customer service enough for their fast response and solving any issue I had. I’ve shopped with them before and I will definitely shop again in the future!
June 22, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Kelli,
Really appreciate you taking the time to leave us this lovely review, and for your patience while we sorted out the issue. Looking forward to your next purchase!!
Lauren @ Self & More
Highly recommend
Great site - easy to use, amazing selection. Arrived on time. Highly recommend
June 18, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Maya,
So pleased to hear you had a positive experience. Thanks for taking the time to leave us this review.
Lauren @ Self & More
Love the vibe
Love the vibe, the company, the ethos, everything!! The parcel arrived quickly, the item is amazing and I loved the little extra touches. This will be my go to sex toy shop!
June 14, 2021
Reply from Self & More
This is what we like to hear! So pleased that you're enjoying your purchase. Give us a shout if you ever need product advice, we'd be happy to help.
Lauren @ Self & More
Great service and arrived quickly with…
Great service and arrived quickly with no issues!
June 9, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Great to hear, thanks so much for leaving us a review!
Lauren @ Self & More
Amazing, amazing, amazing.
I don’t often leave reviews but I have to with this item. In half an hour of my first use I came twice, harder then I’ve ever orgasmed before. I generally need a powerful vibrator to tip me over, which can sometimes leave me a bit numb. The precision and power of this were perfect- no numbness. And it’s small enough to easily use with a partner too.
June 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
What a great review! So glad to hear you're enjoying it. The Lelo Sona is one of our favs too!!
Lauren @ Self & More
Witty product presentation, discreet delivery
Quick delivery, packaging was witty and nice. Package arrives discreetly boxed. Product seems good quality and great to support a smaller business.
June 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Thanks so much for leaving us this lovely review, we really appreciate the support! Give us a shout if you need any help with future purchases.
Lauren @ Self & More
Excellent and very quiet yet still…
Excellent and very quiet yet still gives great results! Easy to keep as has its own little pouch and love that it is rechargeable!
June 7, 2021
Reply from Self & More
So glad to hear you're enjoying your purchase!
Lauren @ Self & More
Great experience. Would recommend.
Easy to use website with good selection and information on the functions of products. Would definitely buy again. Products arrived on time and are of good quality.
June 4, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Tim, really appreciate you taking the time to leave us this review. Please do give us a shout if we can help with any future purchases!
Have a great day,
Lauren @ Self & More
My favourite online shop to buy…
My favourite online shop to buy sextoys! Great service, fast and discreet delivery. Would definitely recommend :)
June 4, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hey Jolene, thanks so much for taking the time to leave us this amazing review. Hope you're enjoying your purchase!
Lauren @ Self & More
Absolutely cannot fault the service
Absolutely cannot fault the service! My items arrived a little earlier than expected, which is fab as they turned up on my birthday!
May 29, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hey Alice, thanks so much for this lovely review and so glad your order turned up with such great timing. Happy birthday to you!!
Enjoy x
Lauren @ Self & More
Product is amazing!
Product is amazing!
One draw back was huge box for a tiny product. Product can fit through the letterbox but packaging ended up being returned to depot due to size.
May 28, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Keely,
Thanks so much for taking the time to leave us this review. So sorry to hear that your package was returned to the depot - that must've been a bit frustrating! We will definitely endeavour to get some different boxes for the smaller items we stock in future to avoid this happening again.
So glad you're enjoying the product! Have a great day,
Lauren @ Self & More
Quick, brilliant and personable
Quick, brilliant and personable service from a great small team. Constantly expanding their product selection and discreet shipping... Definitely worth a try ;)
May 24, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hey Anna, thanks so much for taking us the time to leave this lovely review. We really appreciate it!
Have a lovely day,
Lauren @ Self & More
Lovely store
Lovely store. I adore the selection of the products and I'm really excited for the rewards program.
May 24, 2021
Reply from Self & More
Hi Mags, thanks so much for leaving us a review. We are really excited about the rewards program too!
Give me a shout if you ever need any help or product recommendations!
Lauren @ Self & More
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