eharmony Reviews 

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TrustScore 2 out of 5

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Considering 375 reviews, most reviewers were unhappy with their experience overall. Customers frequently complained about being locked into long-term contracts and facing extreme difficulties when trying to cancel their subscriptions. Many consumers noted that the service provided very little value, leaving them feeling trapped in expensive agreements. Some reviewers were not happy with unexpected additional charges for personality profiles and reports that they never requested or wanted. People also mentioned that the website was difficult to navigate and featured blurred pictures for anyone without a paid subscription. Reviewers strongly advised others to read the small print carefully before making any payments.

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Subscription

Customers consistently note negative experiences with subscription plans, describing long-term financial... See more

Payment

Clients share profound dissatisfaction regarding payment terms, frequently citing unexpected cancellation... See more

Price

Consumers find price to be a major source of frustration, frequently reporting expensive subscriptions and... See more

Cancellation

People report negative experiences with cancellation, expressing widespread frustration over unexpected... See more

Website

Customers expressed strong dissatisfaction with the website, describing it as outdated, clunky, and difficult... See more

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Rated 2 out of 5 stars

Terrible for matches, no matter how I change search critia it kept giving me matches 150+ miles away. You can't put a person on "hold" without liking their profile, so if their's is incomplete (ie no... See more

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I found myself in eharmony membership rather than applying. Complete con artists. Now lm being hounded for membership fees. Also l was approached by someone who was very happy finding out about my au... See more

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

The worst experience I ever had, but I can now understand why they lock you in for a long term; they've learnt people won't return so they shake you down for all you've got. The site has poor security... See more

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I'm sure that under the 14 day rule under the Consumer Rights Act 2015 they should be giving a full refund....their Ts&C's don't trump an Act of Parliament... Disgruntled trial customer..... it's abou... See more


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At eharmony UK, we create longer-lasting relationships by matching you on 18 dimensions of compatibility. We take the time to really get to know you, understand your values and personality traits, so that we can connect you with people who are truly right for you. It’s not just a numbers game; we offer quality, not quantity so that you can be sure all your matches are people really worth getting to know.


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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Lower than 1 star if I could

Lower than 1 star if I could. Watch out for this site. Cancelled within my 14 day rights and charged £60 with hidden charges. Complete scam.DO NOT USE THIS site.

May 23, 2026
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Misleading and unethical business

Misleading customer service. Automatic renewal is in place automatically for the entire year charge. Even you cancel 2 days after the renewal has started you won’t get a penny back and get charged for the entire year when you no longer wish to use them. No 14 days cancellation applies even though this mentioned in the policy. So unethical business. Must not try to use them.

May 20, 2026
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Rip off scam

Not used app in 6 months and expected to pay 2nd subscription payment. System isnt user friendly and email responses seem to come from bots. Price is very excessive. Wont be using again

May 22, 2026
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

The worst experience I ever had

The worst experience I ever had, but I can now understand why they lock you in for a long term; they've learnt people won't return so they shake you down for all you've got. The site has poor security, with people allowed to join without having a single photo. I've never received a single match and most of possible dates are on another continent. Why are they allowed to trade in the UK I can't fathom. "Like" feature is childish at best, seeing this is a dating site with a view to finding a match, real conversation should be encouraged.

May 19, 2026
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

What is the point of a dating app that…

What is the point of a dating app that matches you with people hundreds of miles away, just because the personality test you are forced to do, at a cost of 65 quid, matches someone miles away.. also I cancelled within the 14 days yet it still cost me 65 quid.. awful 😞

May 17, 2026
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Horrible

Just a cheap cashgrab, signed upto it after knowing of it for years they go through this whole BS of personalising your profile taking quizes. Once your in everything was locked unless you paid £11 a month. Couldn't even message. Not even like 5 free messages a day. Its bad that you have this platform and even Tinder has more credibility than this crap.

May 14, 2026
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Consumer Rights Act 2015

I'm sure that under the 14 day rule under the Consumer Rights Act 2015 they should be giving a full refund....their Ts&C's don't trump an Act of Parliament... Disgruntled trial customer..... it's about time Trading Standards investigated.

May 6, 2026
Unprompted review
Rated 3 out of 5 stars

Just joined eHarmony

Just joined eHarmony, so far everything seems straightforward, obviously you need to subscribe before you can really start using the site but that is common to all platforms. Time will tell if it was a worthwhile investment.

May 12, 2026
Unprompted review
Rated 5 out of 5 stars

Like the site

Like the site, but once you move on from someone’s profile, you can’t go back.perhaps it would be useful to be able to return back, two or three.

May 11, 2026
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

The site is not user friendly compared…

The site is not user friendly compared with similar sites. When I tried to cancel within the 14 day cooling off period it was impossible. I was charged for the personality analysis!! Complete scam . I would suggest everyone users Encounters Dating.com a far more superior site!!

May 8, 2026
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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Tech issues and I’m charged!!!

I bought a six month plan and I found photos of people wouldn’t load - (tech issue NOT profilers not adding them) tried removing cookies, reloading etc still same problem contacted customer service who kept insisting it was profiler not adding them when it wasn’t - even my list of liked people ALL had no photos - clearly a tech issue, I said as it was less then a week of joining I would like a refund - they were not fulfilling what I paid for… so without much discussion they refunded minus a fee (of half what I paid!) for my match analysis!!!!
I am ONLY leaving as the app is not working as it should why should I be charged for something not working correctly??? I emailed to complain and they haven’t even bothered answering this!!!!
DO NOT JOIN UP very expensive & DOES NOT WORK CORRECTLY & CUSTOMER SERVICE is APPALLING!

May 7, 2026
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Dont do it

I would not recommend. Its overpriced and you get stuck with a years contract thats met with intransigence. To the point they would go to debt recovery agency if you stopped paying, even if you could not afford it. Another form of emotional black mail really

May 5, 2026
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Thankfully if you are in the UK

Thankfully if you are in the UK, you can use the The Consumer Contracts (Information, Cancellation and Additional Charges) Regulations 2013.

This allows a 14 day cooling off period if you change your mind after subscribing, eHarmony are bound to this law if they have UK members and wishing to cancel within 14 days without penalty.

May 4, 2026
Unprompted review
Rated 4 out of 5 stars

Self determine distances

Great that the filters can narrow down the search field. Would it be possible to let the user put in the search distance, rather than pick from the default <20km, <50km...? I would be prepared to travel further than 20km but if I choose <50km, I get lots of details of men from around Manchester and South Yorkshire (around 40 miles with 2+ motorway stretches from north Leeds). Thanks

May 2, 2026
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Don’t bother, use Hinge

Expensive, fake profiles, can’t use the advertised benefits as not enough real profiles. I set at 100 miles from home, took off by compatibility filters, 10 year age bracket and 100 miles from home. Got 5 profiles with no photos. Have weeks without any visitors to my profile. If you look closely many of profiles haven’t been online for a month and all on same day. Customer services just tell me I need to be patient and how to set preferences correctly. Absolute rubbish. Hinge better, cheaper and you can leave when you meet someone. Save your money and use Hinge. This is utter crap masquerading as premium.

May 4, 2026
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