Absolutely ridiculous dating site. The worst I've ever encountered. The cost to message anyone starts at £20 for 1 week!!! Yes, thats right, 1 WEEK! A 6 month subscription costs over £100. I dont know... See more
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Our time to love life together. Ourtime is the dating site for singles over 50 looking for new friends, fun activities and someone special to enjoy life with. Create your profile for free, run your search and access a list of like-minded singles who share your interests. Our Passes help you make the most of your dating experience and meet singles at your own pace: enjoy unlimited messaging with the singles you like, try voice and video calls, decide who can contact you, receive our personalised selections of singles who share your passions and interests. Enjoy reduced rates on our Activities and Outings in your area or online and meet new people who share a common interest or who simply want to relax in good company. Download our mobile app or visit www.ourtime.co.uk !
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Far too expensive £ 50 for one month &…
Far too expensive £ 50 for one month & nothing ..no genuine matches nothing
This company is good at marketing & taking people's money...
They dont care about you ..
They are clever at targeting people who are lonely & looking for love ..
This company is a scam ...thieves!
An utter disappointment
An utter disappointment. I think that I am decent looking, dependable and have some great attributes, but have virtually no interest, and only one reply from dozens of sent messages. The women are added for free as part of a deal with Match.com, but have to pay to reply, so they generally don't . Plus, as they are on Match,they are bombarded with messages from much younger men, which is probably very flattering to them, but means the older men on Ourtime, however sincere, are sidelined. Don't waste your money.
Usless dating site
There are lots of ladies on this site but they never return any messages I think there are lots of no existent profile or very old profiles on this site.People are showing online but are not. Sent so many likes only one reply answered that was very polite never heard from her again. But has supposedly been on line since. Spam and all the site wants is for you to increase your subscription
I should have read reviews before…
I should have read reviews before joining. I only joined yesterday but within 24 hours it has become clear there are so many femail scammers and false profiles on this site It work's like this... You chat for a while on the site, then they ask if you would like to chat on WhatsApp . Once they have your mobile number they then attempt to send pics, but they are viruses . Be very careful if you sign up to Ourtime, its a complete waste of my money and they make it impossible to delete your account. To be clear, I am NOT saying hurting are the scammers, its the femail false profiles that join up.
A misleading Con.
I signed for ourtime and Match ( we high is from the same stable) because they came up on a Google search as 'Free dating site'. So you complete all your details and once you have finished you are then asked for money. So you then decide not to use to be site. However you are then bombarded multiple times each day with alledged admirers that you cannot see and messages from alleged admirers you cannot read. So you decide to unsubscribe and it doesn't work. You decide to block and it doesn't work. You decide to spam and it doesn't work. These dreadful sites have you imprisoned, it's like the hotel California "you can book in anytime you like, but you can never leave". I have met someone on a reputable, honest site and they think I am cheating on them because these dreadful predators keep filling my inbox. Surely this is not lawful? They now say I can leave via a pc? Still not lawful. If you can join via a phone you should be able to leave via a phone. Predatory parasites.
Ourtime fails to connect
A message came that a subscriber wanted to talk to me. I hit the „Reply now“ button repeatedly but Ourtime always connected me to a different subscriber, never the woman who I wanted to reply to. An inefficient, expansive scam operation. The connection to support services does not work either.
Set up a user account today and within…
Set up a user account today and within an hour I decided I did not want to continue with this site due to the excessive in my opinion cost of the subscription. I was unable to delete my account using the app, so have resorted to deleting my photos and as much of the text as possible. Edit: I have now succeeded in deleting my profile using a laptop.
This has got to be the dodgiest dating…
This has got to be the dodgiest dating site ever. I unsubscribed with in the 2 week cooling of period under trading standards. During that time, I have had endless unwarranted promotions from the site, double charged to be a member. Blatant fake profiles communicating with me. One woman said she was an Antiques dealer in Wales yet wanted me to trump up money for her to get her hair down. The Women on the site that might be genuine ghost you or don't even bother instigating conversation and I am far from ugly. Useless absolutely useless
It's utter insanity! Ourtime is reaping money out of single people
You are enticed into premium membership. Bunch of fake accounts are used for this purpose. When I joined J4Meet.com
I could see right off the bat that the women on there were willing to meet without wasting my time, asking for money, etc. My experience with Ourtime was the complete opposite. It was horrible. The only three women who turned out to be real asked me to lend them some money as soon as we switched to WhatsApp. And I had to wade through plenty of scammers until I came across those three actual people who ultimately turned out to be not genuine in their intentions.
THE SITE IS AN ABSOLUTE SCAM
THE SITE IS AN ABSOLUTE SCAM. RUN BY SCAMMERS WHO HAVE NO MORALS WHAT SO EVER!!
DO NOT JOIN
There should be a no stars option for this website as over 50% of reviews are one star. Mine would be 0 stars if the option was there.
I agree with some many of my my fellow reviewers, that so many of the profiles are made up by the web site or by scammers.
My complaint is that they ban you for no reason. I was banned and tried to phone them, no telephone number.
How can a company that is supposed to be so interactive be allowed to trade with no telephone connection what so ever?
So I follow the instructions on the Ourtime page and emailed them This was on the Morning of 24/04/26.
On the Monday 27/04/26 they replied saying that my email hadn't been sent to the right people, So I immediately wrote back and complained that the email was sent from the Ourtime website as no other address being shown. Where do we expect the email to go?
They did reply apologising that the banning of my profile had been made in error, and I could now get back online.
I wrote back again stating their banning order had cost me 1 week of my final weeks membership. I advised there was absolutely no way I but be letting my membership to continue. I asked google how I cancel my membership after reading all the poor reviews of people trying to cancel. It wasn't an easy thing to do but I did it and took photos of actions needed.
I suggest if you are on there and leaving you follow this method.
Ourtime is a waste of money
Ourtime is a waste of money, the likes you get are mostly generated by BOTS, when you check the search section by recent visitors, the likes you receive from alleged visitors do not appear in any category including new profiles. The matches are not in the same area, often over 100 miles away and with one picture of a young person claiming to be in their 40's. THIS SITE IS THE WORST EVER.
What a scamming site
What a rubbish site. If you are a paying member, they send you 'likes' from other members of the opposite sex. All ficticious ---just made up to stimulate interest. Secondly, when you come to cancel your subscription, it rolls on for another payment, so you end up paying again when you have cancelled your subs.
Lots of fake profiles, very few genuine members. The site is a total scam.
Zero stars not available !!
Zero stars not available !!! Terrible website & very expensive. I only joined for one month to try it out, and had apparently about 6-7 people that "liked" my profile. So I sent all of them a very polite message thanking them, and asked if they wanted to message. I had zero replies, and there is no method of ascertaining if they have been received or read. Now if I were cynical, I could suggest it is in Ourtimes (financial) "interest", NOT to get people together, but to get them to carry on with their subscriptions ! I for one of many, will not be rejoining !
My brain is fried, and so is my love life
If I could give this no stars I would. This site is at best a mess, at worst a scam - completely impossible to navigate, a counterintuitive interface and overall a cynical thrown together maze to dupe people. I have never once achieved what I went on here to do - I get an email from the site saying someone has liked me or someone has sent me a message, when I try to click through I'm presented with a different person - I can't find the person who has apparently messaged me. I also can't find messages I've sent people, or people that have supposedly liked me. The menu is nonsensical - what's the difference between 'Discover' and 'Highlights'? Why isn't there a button where you can view your messages? The categories make no sense and don't do what they are supposed to do. The only part of the website that works is the annoying popups telling me to renew or upgrade my subscription. It's supposed to be a mature dating site, but throw me in a home already, I'll skip this part. This is a dysfunctional expensive waste of data centres.
If there was a MINUS star I’d vote on…
If there was a MINUS star I’d vote on -100 after being groomed online & scammed from 29th December to last week.
He made out he was also a widow etc. and fraudulently took over £2,000 from me - luckily I’ve managed to get £540 back but because he advised PayPal and state ‘friends & family’ I doubt very much if I will see a penny every again…
Be very aware before joining OurTime as it definitely was NOT my time. :-(
This site is an utter scam
Fake profiles / scammer site
Our time is sister site to match.com who show your profile on their other site to. Here’s how the scam works , you get notifications saying someone has viewed your profile or sent you a message to scam you into subscribing to view however these are fake messages from fake profiles !! Fact when I tried searching the profiles they could never be found ?
Also there are profiles on there months out of date so if you don’t see a green dot on they aren’t live / active accounts . So DONT subsvribe , DONT but super likes in fact DONT use this site at all . You get notifications saying someone replies from customer service when you highlight scams because this company was fined for setting up fake accounts years ago. Ignore and use another not from this group ( search google to see what other sites are managed by this company)
I only gave 1 star because there isn't…
I only gave 1 star because there isn't a zero. This site costs everyone alot of money, in my case when I'm at home I can't get onto this site before 9.30pm, I complained many times without reply. When I am out of my house it works occasionally, checked my online connection and its fine. Many women have gave up because they can't get in touch with me. Not good enough service for what we all pay. DON'T TRY THIS SITE.
Signed up for 6 months and after 2…
Signed up for 6 months and after 2 months they blocked my account. Wouldn’t give me a reason why. Don’t waste your money they are a ripoff.
They could filter out all the con artists
They could filter out all the con artists, 8/9 of my first contacts. Be up front about the hidden charges. The way they run the site is criminal
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