Absolutely ridiculous dating site. The worst I've ever encountered. The cost to message anyone starts at £20 for 1 week!!! Yes, thats right, 1 WEEK! A 6 month subscription costs over £100. I dont know... See more
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Our time to love life together. Ourtime is the dating site for singles over 50 looking for new friends, fun activities and someone special to enjoy life with. Create your profile for free, run your search and access a list of like-minded singles who share your interests. Our Passes help you make the most of your dating experience and meet singles at your own pace: enjoy unlimited messaging with the singles you like, try voice and video calls, decide who can contact you, receive our personalised selections of singles who share your passions and interests. Enjoy reduced rates on our Activities and Outings in your area or online and meet new people who share a common interest or who simply want to relax in good company. Download our mobile app or visit www.ourtime.co.uk !
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WC1A 9FG, London, France
- www.ourtime.co.uk
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I don’t trust this company
I don’t trust this company. Its website shows that it has earned 4.5 stars but Trustpilot kicks it back to 1 star. I had one woman using same photo move from Rochdale to Ramsbottom overnight. Another 2 women had exactly, l do mean exactly, dreams and interests, they even appeared in the same order. I believe that some of these women are genuine but as the company wants you to pay before you can message them or check out who has reviewed your profile. I just wish that I could contact some who is happy with my pic and profile. I don’t get enough opportunity to meet likeminded women. This company is just coining it without consideration for feelings and is actually falsifying profiles. I don’t blame the women, there are some lovely photos, but those photos are being misused for profit.
Waste of time and money!
I joined mainly for the promised, numerous social occasions: in six months there have been none!
After repeated requests for no more of the emails, they continued to come.
New profiles were few and far between. I had numerous likes but they were mostly from unattractive or distant men.
In 6 months I had two dates. One from someone who looked far older than his photos and one nice date from a man who was merely a serial dater.
Many profiles were from con artists.
Most profiles were repetitive and from distant, unattractive or mismatched men.
Don't waste your money! I've cancelled now and following other reviews, I will contact my bank to make sure that I pay no more money!
I signed up for 6 months useless sight…
I digned up for 6 months useless sight gull of scammers then they continue to take subscription evrn after csmcelling no replies no feedback stealing my money taking legal sction
I joined and then decided to change my…
I joined and then decided to change my mind, I cancelled my account but have been charged £24.99 a month since. I’m paying this for a site I don’t access and don’t like. Unable to work out how to not pay this monthly subscription for a service I don’t use
The Worst Dating Site Ever!
Absolutely ridiculous dating site. The worst I've ever encountered. The cost to message anyone starts at £20 for 1 week!!! Yes, thats right, 1 WEEK! A 6 month subscription costs over £100. I dont know how these dating sites are able to continue to exploit innocent people trying to seek a connection with someone. I am absolutely disgusted at this. You're better off staying single at this rate people.
I soon decided that the site wasn't for…
I soon decided that the site wasn't for me, so I didn't sign up for an expensive subscription. However, I could NOT close my account or remove my photos and personal details. I've had to block their emails and now I relly wish that I had seen the these other Trust Pilot reviews before going onto that website.
Awfull!!
Awfull!!! Can't delete photo, can only delete account on a computer which i don't have access to. Wish I'd never gone on it in first place!!!
First Toe in the Water
I have not been on a dating site before and am very impressed with Ourtime. The members I have seen are all pleasant looking and decent men who I have felt comfortable connecting with. It’s very early says but so far so good.
You can never leave, they won't let you delete your account
I just want to delete my acount, but it is impossible. The help pages dont load ever. This site sucks a*se.
Guess Im now just an extra profile to make up numbers of alleged active members. I'm not...
Some really nasty pieces of work behind this site. You can never delete your profile, and if they have your bank details...look out
Beware fake profiles
Please, for the love of god, don’t part with your money.
90% of these profiles are fake, 50+? No way, more like 30+.
And there is no customer number.
Charge too much
Charge too much. Give likes when you have not done it.
One star is still an exaggeration
One star is still an exaggeration. This is a scam site. I signed up and then I. could never ever access my profile again . A reset email was never sent.
AVOID this page!!!
too early to say
Save your money.
I'm writing a review here in order to help others avoid this organisation. Ourtime appears to use the same database as match.com, but filtered to show only over-50s. Its advantage is that it has a very large database and that is the only good thing I can say about it. I subscribed to Ourtime some years back and it was fairly OK - I'm a reasonably attractive and intelligent individual and I would get a reply rate of perhaps one in three of those I contacted, resulting in an exchange of messages, a telephone chat and - if we both wanted it - a meeting. I've had a similar level of response on other dating websites I've tried, so I know I'm not being unrealistic. But on Ourtime in 2025? Not one response to almost twenty messages I sent, and not even (so far as I can tell) did one of them even look at my profile. I had two contact messages which came from others I followed up, and they were very suspicious - one definitely using AI to phrase responses, (To check this I asked AI to prepare a message to respond to what I had said, and it was remarkably similar!). I did have a number of contacts from others which I was not interested in pursuing (though I always replied as a matter of courtesy). So my conclusion is lots of fake and completely dormant profiles, quite a few bad actors, and - I suspect - completely bogus profiles set up to contact subscribers to try to keep them engaged. Complaints in response to satisfaction questions are met with standard computerised responses, Beyond that the functionality is poor and the filters ineffective.
Had high hopes with this experience…
Had high hopes with this experience because of the adverts on television.
But there are all the same faces, and not had that many positive connections via this dating website.
Over rated indeed, shame as I am dissapointed by the experience. Do not waste your money as you will get no where!
Shame!
Steer clear be warned
Taken subscription without my permission
Please do not sign up with this company. I signed up for one month. Surprise surprise they deducted a second payment with out my permission. I contacted them no reply. I will be contacting the bank tomorrow report this as a fraudulent transaction.
Steer clear of this scam
Complete and total waste of time.
Complete and total waste of time.
Do NOT waste your money on this site.
The terms and conditions and help pages do not load, most likely intentionally as they don't want anyone to cancel the expensive, pointless subscriptions. The same people visit profiles over and over, even after they've been blocked.
I was on Match.com but got…
I was on Match.com but got disillusioned but thought i would give Ourtime a go couple of days ago. Why did i bother as there are exactly the same profiles and descriptions on there as on Match which seems very odd as they are supposed to be 2 separate companies. I contacted Our time but strangely got a reply back from Match which seems to reaffirm my thoughts.
BEWARE - misleading and not transparent subscription
I signed up for one month only at a cost of £44.99. I believed it would finish at the end of the month - it didn’t and I was charged another £44.99 and this would have continued until I cancelled it. I complained that it was misleading and not transparent. I got fobbed off.
I paid my money
I paid my money, had access for 2 hours now cannot get back into my account. I asked to reset my password and they never send a e mail.
Stay away from this scam company.
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