Seekingarrangement Reviews 410

I took the time to set up my profile, answer all the questions, write a bunch of things about me, upload the photos, wait for them to get approved (and rejected for no reason!) then when I finally got my profile approved after days and days of going around in circles, I saw a few people had favorited me and wrote messages, so I signed up with a gift card and was IMMEDIATELY SUSPENDED for Absolutely NO Reason!!! This company HATES its users. No one from customer service will explain what happened except for the canned corporate answer which could be any of dozes of "violations". Can't any authority do anything about this blatant SCAM company?!

100000% the owner of seeking arrangement hires people to be fake dates … non stop communication but never meetings , it’s obvious! Stop paying guys it’s all a scam

This company is terrible. DO NOT USE THEM. They will fraudulently charge you. I had an account and didn't know autorenew was on, when I was charged the first time, they did refund me. To ensure I was not charged again by mistake I turned off the auto renew option. Imagine my surprise when 3 months later I was charged an autorenew. When I contacted customer service with photos proving my account said autorenew was turned off in august and that they had charged me in November they said they would still not issue a refund. That is fraud, they allowed me to cancel autorenew, but 3 months later they still charged me for autorenew while it was cancelled. Terrible company and even worse customer service

Think about what this site claims to offer to young women (wealthy men) and what type of women that's inevitably going to attract (fakes, scammers, camgirls not interested in offline dates, gold diggers).

Toxic. This site has deteriorated badly over the past few years while the cost of membership has climbed steadily. Now used mainly by prostitutes and scammers pretending to be ordinary people. A reasonably priced site like this would be very welcome minus all the propaganda and bs about "successful and attractive members."

There are 2 prostitutes in the Myrtle Beach section named Milly and Ashleigh. They have been witnessed having sex together in front of their 5 and 7 year old boys. The boys were told it was an act of love while they continued performing oral sex on each other. They are currently under investigation for prostitution and child abuse by the Sheriffs dept. all verifiable. Their real names are Paige Hemelrick and Danielle Manco. I will be providing actual pictures and mugshots of them both. Seeking has been notified and they continue to provide a platform for their illegal activities. Please complain to them and let’s shut them down. Do it for the children.

The worst site with the weirdest old men who are only looking for a girls to use as a one night stand. Very difficult to find a true connection on that site because the men are just so weird and fake their occupations. They will engage you into a conversation, send you their # and then block you immediately without allowing you time to even respond.

They banned me very early in my monthly membership without a shred of proof. The accusation was that I solicited members who were under the age of 18 which is ridiculous because they have to be at least 18 to sign up. So someone reported me for that then that means by definition they were lying to begin with to get on the site.

Absolutely disappointed.
They are also asking me for $319.98 in order to unban my account-I just paid the monthly subscription and they demand more money

This is extortion

Sign up with SA about 3 months ago and right after i send the mandatory payment ,my account was banned and i was never able to log in.
I email them few times and today i receive an email from SA SUPPORT demanding $400 payments in order to let my acoount on. Well choose wisley what website yhou subscribed too ,im done here and perhaps i will report them to the Department of Justice and European Authorities as well.

[Asian SB]
About 7 years ago, I first learnt about this sugar baby site. Even though I was too young & scared to be involved in this affair, I had strong positive experiences than the bad experiences. I met a couple of married men who are really good looking & generous/chivalrous.

Came back this year for about 1 month+. It’s been crazy seeing how bizarre SDs are now behaving. I never once asked for payment before or during M&G. Always genuine in my replies. My experiences were such a mixed bag and did not have any truly positive experience:

• Kink Based Selection
It’s no longer enough to be young, good looking, intelligent and willing to be physically intimate. 2 Business owner with one of the highest monthly allowance range filter me based on whether I am willing to cater to their specific extreme sexual fetishes (I don’t). Whatever nice stuff they wrote in their profile and messages isn’t the main deal, how unfortunate despite meeting the criteria.

• Long Conversation Without Meeting
Some men just wants to keep texting without meeting. A few obviously wanted some sex-text entertainment— The western guy even send some sex videos and constantly ask about my fantasies, non-stop.

• Passive & Flaky Local SG Men
Most exist just to view beautiful female photos. Some are flaky in meeting, cancels last minute few hours before meeting, others talks about meeting yet MIA. My experiences of all (2) Chin-Dian tends to have an irrational emotional outbursts.

• Bizzare American Expats Men
They at first appear to be the most perfect profiles. For no apparent good reasons, they seem to be overly thinking things and will block you (don’t spend too much energy trying to analyse them).
For instance, my M&G went perfectly well with impeccable & respectful lawyer who said he wants to meet again. He went on a business trip and we didn’t spoke at all. A week later, our chat messages were gone and my account got reported I think (didn’t even ask for anything or even said anything!), he blocked me on seeking too. Next day, with another American in his 60’s who will be flying over for a business trip— my one innocuous reply about why I was up late (I was studying & planning my life) got me blocked the next morning too. 🧐🤨

• Disappearing Accounts
About 80% of the people I had conversations with for past 1.5 months either have deactivated accounts or were blocked by either party (LOL). To clarify, I only block only those with weird fetishes like licking of armpits or were stringing me for too long, etc!

• Pimps
One of the SD was looking for a SB to pimp to his investment client(s) for a mere S$500 and asked me to take pills (Which hints about unprotected sex). I initially thought he was a cool person!

Summary:
As you can see, the original idea of a sugar baby has become more of a distant dream & an illusion. I don’t know if it’s even real, whether a wealthy sugar daddy even exists. People are acting weird after the years of covid 19. Being a genuine SB has make me feel so exhausted. I felt that I have wasted so much time on this, constantly rewriting my profile and taking better photos but yielding no fruitful results given the sort of people on the platform.

I guess it’s better to go back to getting a traditional job or focus on entrepreneurship and keep ourselves out of the entire dating market! (I don’t use Tinder)

I understood and expected the site to have busy successful men but not a flood of mentally & emotionally unstable individuals. 😕

Time wasters, liars and scammers fill this 'dating' website. In my first week I received offers from fake profiles. eg: I'm open to online only with $1500 per week, 'kindly send me your phone number'.
Nope Indian scammer!
The hard truth is many of the female profiles are just escorts or scammers so if you're real and honestly looking in your area, the men are so suspicious that it's almost impossible to get a date.
The chat system is impossible! None of your fav's are actually online the same time as you so it takes forever to have a short exchange.
Most men are looking for sex.
Very few are genuine. They want 'easy' quick and tit for tat IF you ever meet them.
I didn't have all day to wait for a reply from someone, and then when I shared my personal email, they would either freak out or say, can we stay on the website?
Fear and suspicion isn't healthy for making a real connection.
Don't bother.
They blocked me and told me I was 'permanently banned' from all of their affiliated websites.
Oh no! My life is over! LOL
There are many other websites not affiliated with this scam site.
with better and many of the same men on it with a less restrictive photo policy.
Just don't waste your time.

Although I believe one or two of the gentleman on the site we’re actually legitimately wealthy I think most of them lie and are just married players.
The real issue with the website is the communication mode.
They have a chat system.
They show your profile when you’re online and you can contact each other via the chat system or video chat, however the problem is almost no one is online at the same time.

The men on there are highly suspicious of everyone because there’s so many scammers!

As a woman and a web designer I received a number of scam contacts through fake profiles in my first day!
They wanted “online arrangements” at $1500 a week! And they offered that without ever having known anything about me and then said “kindly send your phone number”
Scam!

On my first day I did chat with someone in my area who said he was willing to meet the following Monday, and during the chat session seemed like he was trying to get off.
I wouldn’t say things that got him off so he ghosted me.
Fake.
If you do send a message to someone it takes days for them to return it.
When they do respond you have to wait for an email to let you know someone responded.
There is no way for a message to be sent to you to alert your own phone.
I was literally chatting with a gentleman and the neighboring state who showed online and I would send a message such as, “how are you dealing with the heat in Arizona and “
And although it showed him online I sat there for almost 15 minutes and he didn’t respond.
A chat is an active ongoing conversation.
Or it’s supposed to be!

So I gave out my personal email address just to say hey let’s stop this chatting thing because it’s not working for me, and they deleted my account.

That means I got less than 10 days of service on seeking arrangement.com for $50!
And, if you say something to a guy and he’s so freaking suspicious that he thinks you’re a scammer, which I am not and was not, they will delete your account and keep your money

So I will not be going back.
There are too many others out there that do the same exact thing and are free!
And by the way, I’ve seen the same profiles on seeking arrangement.com as I have on the other sites that are absolutely free and you can tell by the way they’re written that they are not scammers they’re just married men looking to fool around on their wives.

This is nothing but an escort site. Waste of time for women at least wanting to be a sugar baby. I get lots of offers for per meets, but I don’t want to engage in that illegal and high-risk lifestyle. This is a dinosaur in the age of #Metoo.

PAY TO MEET. You are likely talking to a little 12 yr old boy in some poor 3rd world country or China, Russia, etc. How very obvious. I had TONS of online interest in my profile. My profile should have been a huge turnoff with lines like--you need to be tender, I enjoy having you with sauce and fava beans or the other line make sure you skin is very soft and you are a little plump, I plan to keep lotion on you while you are in the pitt.
Also wrote in a part about doing my R KELLY activities with ladies. Check out Chappelle video if you wonder what that is. I was able to spell it out on Seeking. We got some POO and PEE

Also, I searched an area of the midwest that is VERY WHITE. 1% of the population was another ethnic group, yet, 4 pages of women that were in this ethnic group. I am sure they read these to improve their scam, not interested in helping them.

I wanted to open an account. They would not approve my profile photo because it did not show my face!!! So much for discretion.

It’s not the scammers, it’s the perverts that run the site. I’ve had my profile ‘reset’ several times while I was messaging people, and that never happened on any other site, also sometimes while messaging people they just delete their account for absolutely no reason whatsoever, funny thing is, I used to have a lot of fun meeting different girls on Seeking, whereas other sites where the people who run it don’t really care about what’s happening, you don’t seem to do much good, so the morons at Seeking seem to make things happen the more they think they are stopping it from happening, but that was when the site was tolerable, now it’s just a joke, I just can’t go there knowing that they are watching everyone, and getting off on whatever they do, gross.

People looks for website where single people can find easy another single for free.
And this site is even more trash and more scam than apps like Tinder and Match , need to pay to see your messages , pay for more likes , pay for more people to see you then pay again for seen messages. Even subscription 200 quid ? Report this site

Terrible site, Get tons of women from thousands of miles away and nothing you can do except block each one. should be a way to filter/block different countries or geographical areas. They have changed, its not a sugar site anymore so my inbox is flooded but 30-40 year old women looking for love. TONS of scammer profiles try to Pig Slaughter me. FAKE and dangerous. No matter what you right in your profile women rarely read them and contact you from some county or state far away. Total waste of time .Was much better when it was just a sugar site. Now you dont know whos contacting you and why. Makes you waste so much time