Sleep Consultant & Parent Adviser. Reviews 218

Brenda came into my life at the perfect time. I felt pretty much at rock bottom after 15 months of cosleeping, breastfeeding to sleep and wakes every hour. We had all the sleep associations you could think of and I just thought my boy wasn’t a good sleeper.

Ive tried and failed with sleep training in the past so I was slightly hesitant at first, thinking I don’t want to spend a lot of money only to fail again given he was a toddler now and a pretty stubborn, strong-minded one at that.

But Brenda reassured me that her method will work if I just follow everything to a T and trust the process. So we went ahead and my life changed almost overnight. After 3 nights he was basically sleeping through 12 hours. Having Brenda on hand on WhatsApp to iron out any issues and just to get reassurance was so helpful. We stuck the course and now it’s been a couple of months and my life is completely changed. I not only have my evenings and sleep back but my mental health is so much better and I can be a better parent during the day with all my energy replenished for my lively and active boy.

Best money I’ve ever spent as a parent!

If you’re struggling with sleep and need someone to just tell you what to do without any frills then reach out to Brenda!

Thanks Brenda ❤️

We were recommended Brenda and she didn’t disappoint. We have a one year old
Daughter who took sometimes 2 hours to get down to sleep and was up every hour, then rising at 4/5am every day, this had been the case for a year and we
simply couldn’t go on like it.

Brenda came to our home on the Saturday and by Monday eve Tippy slept 12 hours.
We were given bespoke and clear instructions/guidance to suit Tippy and had 24-7 contact for any Qs along the way, of which she replied promptly.
A month has passed and she has continued to sleep 7-7. It’s completely changed our lives in multiple ways! All of us are so much happier and we feel like we have our life back as a family and as a couple. We are very grateful to have worked with her.

She is the real life Mary Poppins…we will use her again and again, when we have more children. My only regret is not finding her earlier!

I was co-sleeping for 5 months, desperate for change and for my son to sleep independently. He also had bad eczema which was keeping him restless and awake.

Brenda’s methodology and skill has lead to him sleeping in his own room, through the night, able to self soothe and much happier in himself and his skin has improved.

Brenda can cleverly understand the family dynamic and introduce ways of working which each child which suits them and the mother.

My life has changed and Brenda offered support and tough love which is what I needed for things to change.

Thank you Brenda !

Our 4.5-month-old had gone from waking just twice a night to waking every 1.5 hours, and there seemed to be no end in sight. Exhaustion doesn’t quite cover it — we felt completely lost. We thought we were “doing everything right,” yet every source of advice seemed to contradict the last, leaving us unsure what to change or where to begin.

Brenda came highly recommended by a friend who called her a true “sleep wizard.” By that point we were willing to try anything, even with a healthy dose of scepticism.

She spent one afternoon with us and our son, and incredibly, he has slept through the night from the very day we met her. We are genuinely shocked by the transformation and deeply grateful for her calm guidance, insight, and experience. Thanks to Brenda, we’ve regained our sanity and feel like the best, most present parents we can be again. We can’t recommend her highly enough.

Bo, Luke & Finn

We couldn’t be more grateful to Brenda for helping us getting our son to sleep trough the night. Theo now sleeps peacefully in his cot in his own room. We would 100% recommend her.

Brenda was a wonderful help with implementing a routine and sleep training our son. Before we started with Brenda our 6 month old “Velcro baby” was waking constantly through the night, co-sleeping, only able to sleep when breastfed to sleep and did not have a reliable nap schedule. After a week of Brenda’s routine our little boy slept through the night in his own cot! Brenda was extremely responsive and dealt with us completely remotely from South Africa. Brenda is firm but kind, she has so much experience and a natural instinct with babies, you have to be willing to stick to her approach and be consistent but the results will be well worth it! Thank you Brenda!

A lovely experience with Brenda! She assisted us in sleep training our 2 year old and 3 month old. We found her approach to be firm but absolutely effective and resulted in us now having two wonderfully sleep trained babies (and in turn… our full nights of sleep are back which we’re very grateful for!!) During the time she was with us- she was responsive, always on hand to help and we found that she often assisted us with issues outside of sleep training (such as digestion). I’d highly recommend Brenda to any new/existing parents who are struggling with lack of sleep and routine.

Hiring Nanny Brenda was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made as a single mum. From the very first visit, she calmly and confidently re-established structure and discipline in my home, addressing my 4-year-old’s challenging behavior in a way that was firm, kind, and incredibly effective. What felt overwhelming and out of control before quickly became manageable and clear.

Beyond behavior, she also achieved something I have been struggling with for a long time: she trained my child to sleep independently. The impact of this alone was life-changing. Over the three weeks that followed, her ongoing phone support was invaluable, she guided me through real-life situations, reinforced consistency, and gave me the confidence to hold boundaries without guilt or stress.

Today my child clearly understands expectations and limits, feels more secure because of them, and is happier overall. As a parent, I'm calmer, more confident, and genuinely enjoying time with my child again. My home feels peaceful instead of chaotic. The change in such a short time was drastic, lasting, and deeply positive. I'm incredibly grateful for her expertise and support and would recommend her without hesitation to any family struggling with behavior or routines.

Brenda was very helpful in giving us the confidence to sleep train our 5 month old little girl alongside a clear daytime routine.

The experience was quite tough initially (lots of protesting from our little one) and Brenda’s style won’t be for everyone as she is very direct - but with a bit of patience and some small tweaks, she now sleeps through the night and is better at napping… it works, thank you!

Our 8 month old daughter went from waking every couple of hours at night to sleeping through from 7pm - 7am. We are so grateful to Brenda to have our evenings back, and a consistent routine!

Brenda was incredibly helpful to get our baby sleeping and feeding better. She’s literally completely changed our lives and our baby is happier, calmer and sleeping when he is supposed to! She understands babies and you have to trust the process and try what she says! It works!

Brenda is magic! Our son was an absolute nightmare to put down for bed and at 7 months was still waking several times in the night. The first night Brenda helped us he fell asleep immediately and slept for 12 hours. The process took about 2 weeks and it wasn’t always easy but Brenda was incredibly helpful, motivational and kept us feeling like we were on the right track. Her approach is very no-nonsense, rational and quite strict but it really worked for me and was an outlier among all the “responsive/gentle” approaches that didn’t work for us. My son is now nearly 3, has slept 12 hours ever since (and never fights or cries at bedtime). He’s an angel. We’re calling Brenda again for our 4 month old now to make sure we get on track early because nothing has made our parenthood journey easier than having a child who sleeps reliably!

Brenda provided clear and no nonsense advice that enabled us to have a sleeping baby in 48 hours! Brenda is clearly an expert and was on hand to provide advice on a range of subjects. Of course the hard work sits with the parents but if you are needing a change - Brenda is your lady!

Brenda is quite literally magic! within less than a week our son was sleeping 7-7 I couldn't believe it! Our son was a nightmare going to bed and was waking multiple times during the night. Since the day she visited our house and told us what to change its transformed our evenings and made everything so much better! She was always on hand with any questions we had and we didn't want our time to end with her we even extended it so we could have contact another 2 weeks. Thanks to Brenda we now are getting back our night time sleep! She is always willing to help even a few month down the line still makes contact to see how we are getting on and gives advice! Thank you Brenda for being so amazing!

Brenda was an absolute lifesaver for our family. Her support, knowledge, and calm guidance made a real difference in our child’s sleep and in our confidence as parents. She is kind, professional, and truly knows what she’s doing. I’m incredibly grateful for her help and highly recommend her to anyone struggling with sleep.

Brenda was recommended to me by a very dear friend and I'm so grateful to have been offered such a fantastic support at a really difficult time. I was totally lost with my 5 month old son's routine and both my husband and I couldn't understand how to get him to take naps or sleep through the night (even after reading many resources, trying different methods, apps etc). I was up every 1-2 hours each night with my son and really starting to feel the strain before arranging to meet with Brenda and use her services as a sleep consultant. Brenda is very thorough, she gave structure to my son's routine and offered fantastic advice that I will never forget. Having her 24/7 support for 3 weeks helped enormously as both my husband and I were a little nervous to start sleep training but she encouraged us each day. I would 100% ask for Brenda's help if I had another child as our son now sleeps through the night, takes his day time naps and has a complete routine that's clear to follow. I really can't thank Brenda enough for her time and expertise!

We cannot recommend our sleep consultant highly enough. From the very beginning, she took the time to truly understand Leo, our family, and our concerns, rather than offering a one-size-fits-all solution. Her guidance was clear, and incredibly reassuring, which made the whole process feel manageable and supportive.

Thanks to her expertise and encouragement, Leo’s sleep has improved beyond what we thought possible.She was always available to answer questions, adjust the plan when needed, and celebrate the small wins along the way. The difference in our household has been life-changing — more rest, less stress, and a much happier child.

If you’re feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, or unsure where to start with your child’s sleep, we can honestly say you’d be in the best possible hands.

With Brenda’s help our 10 month old baby boy has started sleeping through the night. We cannot recommend her highly enough. After meeting with us, Brenda came up with a new schedule for the baby and a few tweaks to his feeding. We followed this and within a short time our baby was sleeping through the night. Brenda was very supportive throughout the process.

To quote a friend on the birth of our first daughter: “get rid of anyone else’s number; the only one you need is Brenda’s.” Brenda is a first-rate sleep trainer, who combines years of experience with a no-nonsense style that guarantees results in days. We worked with Brenda from days after our daughter was born, and she was on hand to answer all our questions and concerns. Both my husband and I were anxious about sleep but by following Brenda’s routine during the day, our daughter was sleeping through the night (with one 30m wake) by 4 months. The routine also gave us visibility on when our daughter would nap during the day which in turn made childcare much more manageable. I heard horror stories from my antenatal group of children not sleeping until midnight or starting their day at 2am, but with Brenda’s help we avoided those situations entirely.

Brenda worked with our family for two months, and we couldn’t be more grateful for her support. She brought a wealth of knowledge, teaching us helpful tips and tricks. She provided us with a routine on day 1 which was a game changer for us. It provided us with a plan for the day and allowed us to get on top of things rather than just waiting for the next thing to happen.

Brenda’s help allowed me the time to recover and thanks to her expertise, our baby is now sleeping through the night. Brenda is calm, reliable, and has a wealth of knowledge —truly an excellent night nanny. Thank you Brenda!